Cultures & Groups - 8 October 2006

Most of my life, I've had crushes on women, 98% of my fantasies are about women with women, I love Xena and read lesbian fan fiction, the whole shebang. Until now I never fully explored what that meant, and have only ever had relationships with men. I'm in the process of ending a 7 year relationship w/a man, and have no desire to be with a man again.

I met a woman at work that is openly lesbian and I can't stop thinking about her. She's in a relationship, and I respect that, but I love talking to her and am more turned on than I've ever been when I'm near her. One day her breasts brushed against me and I was so aroused I couldn't concentrate the rest of the day. We have a lot in common and she spends a whole lot of time coming to my cubicle to just sit, talk & laugh. I can't tell if she likes me or not, and I don't want to ask because she's in a relationship and we work together, and also, this is new territory to me. Am I a lesbian? And what should I do about my feelings for her?

2006-10-08 09:58:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

self explainatory.

2006-10-08 09:56:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

I am a taurus and taurus by nature are just jealous people. I even get jealous with people that I shouldn't get jealous with. Like if I see a female co-worker talkin with some other guy, who I've never seen, I get a twinge of jealousy which is stupid.

I get jealous when my GF tells me about her guy friends and whats going on with them. I get jealous when I hear about other guys trying to make moves on my GF.

I have been working on changing this because I got jealous once with my GF about having text messages with other guys and she set me straight with stuff so I have been getting better about it and tryin to understand that she has guys friends and I should try to accept that. I understand we both need to have friends of the opposite sex and what not. I just don't have a lot of friends that are girls. I do work in a field that is dominated by women though so I guess it evens out. I work closely with women mainly all day, every day. And we are all friendly towards each other.

2006-10-08 09:54:35 · 6 answers · asked by marie 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

im writing a paper on this for my comp one class i need some ideas

2006-10-08 09:52:15 · 12 answers · asked by nik_nikkie 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Ok this is mean for NO offense to anyone. So if offense is taken TOO BAD, and FORGIVE ME. But why do they call it Gay Rights? when The Lord God himself says that Gays should be stoned and put to death.

2006-10-08 09:40:09 · 16 answers · asked by lil_ler12 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-08 09:34:27 · 10 answers · asked by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I think it gets awfully frustrating to have people see past who you are, and only see your sexuality. Do you ever wonder if, when telling someone you're gay, that they are secretly forming a mental picture of your sexual habits in their minds? Especially in the lesbian community, you tell a guy you're a lesbian, and it's like you can almost physically SEE them forming a lesbian fantasy in their mind...or is it just me? It just seems like in society, if you say you're gay (male or female) that you are seen by most heterosexuals as being sexually deviant and promiscuous, but that's not all gay people are, right? Why do st8 people seem to think that gays are ONLY interested in sex and that it consumes their lives? OR...why is it when you tell a str8 person you're gay, they AUTOMATICALLY assume you (the gay person) wants them, or every OTHER member of the same sex, regardless if they are straight or gay? pfft, don't flatter yourselves.

2006-10-08 09:19:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Her insulting bull c r @ p about GLBQ people are just disgusting. Ha, she is probably a he anyway.

Just look at her picture....she looks scared as all get out. Damn.

2006-10-08 09:17:11 · 16 answers · asked by Left Footed 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Is it because she saw looked in the mirror and they got scared?

2006-10-08 09:13:58 · 4 answers · asked by b 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

SO I was drivin down main street and there she was just standin on the corner tryin to get some monayyyyyy...

2006-10-08 09:07:38 · 3 answers · asked by b 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Black people call us crackers and say we smell like wet dogs when it rains but if we say black in front of them they want to jump us. Pimp My Ride makes fun of white people like when on one episode they make two white guys say, "do you like my shirt tucked in or out?" and a colored man says,"white people." and shakes his head.but a colored girl on a different show got mad because they used "black girl" as a name replacement in her yearbook. im tired of it i just want everyone to get along

2006-10-08 09:04:57 · 18 answers · asked by this_kid_is_hot_15_09 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Be honest, we are all prejudiced. There are some people you like more than others based merely upon ethnicity. The question is, will you be honest enough to admit it? So be brave and tell!

2006-10-08 08:58:37 · 25 answers · asked by college_republicans_club 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-10-08 08:49:19 · 2 answers · asked by threecheers4nick 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-10-08 08:44:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-10-08 08:40:21 · 22 answers · asked by ktpotaty@verizon.net 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Why is this done some may ask? It is very much supprted in theory by the bible. Remember the story of Legions? The man who lived by the cemetary and had Legions of demons possessing him, hence the name. Jesus cast out the demons into a nearby herd of pigs. Those pigs wild with demons ran off the cliff and killed them selves therefore shedding blood. Well tis the same belief. Santero/a will take the Bad health, Witchcraft, or negative issue off of a person and put it in to the animal. COuld be a chicken, goat, or Cow. Then they get sacrificed to God or the saints. IN the same way it was necesarry for Jesus to shed blood for our sins to be resolved. SOmetimes a sacrifice is in order! I hope this opens some minds up!

2006-10-08 08:36:13 · 2 answers · asked by david s 4 in Other - Cultures & Groups

its like they are always out to prove black to white discrimination does not exist-when of course it does-African -Americans don't want me in their bookclub-but when I started my WhiteAmerican bookclub-they SUED me for discrimination!!

2006-10-08 08:29:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

Not stamp collecting - you can get rich from that. Chess? Rock painting? Pin collecting? What?

2006-10-08 08:29:27 · 15 answers · asked by Strange Design 5 in Other - Cultures & Groups

XD

2006-10-08 08:26:17 · 18 answers · asked by rae 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I just think that PETA is hypocritical.

2006-10-08 08:25:35 · 6 answers · asked by Ohay 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-10-08 08:20:17 · 31 answers · asked by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i think they taste better

2006-10-08 08:18:57 · 8 answers · asked by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

As long as it doesn't harm anyone (or anything) else?

Are people who indulge in their sexual fetishes considered immoral or is it simply a part of some peoples' natural sexuality that they possess, and others don't understand?

2006-10-08 08:17:04 · 8 answers · asked by Gray M 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-10-08 07:54:10 · 8 answers · asked by brad 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I don't know about anyone else, but that statement sounds a wee bit racist to me.

2006-10-08 07:51:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-10-08 07:47:29 · 11 answers · asked by old_rocker2001 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

FTM here. I haven't done any transistion yet in any way, but I'm starting to get depressed and going in public now irritates me, because I look female still. I didn't really even know I was trans (even though I should have known) until about 6 months ago. I go to therapy and that helps... I plan to transistion this coming June. I'm scared and confused, but it's hard to be in public now and I have to go somewhere today and it's really depressing me... Is this a normal feeling about being in public? I mean, I get really ANNOYED and RAGE like. :(

2006-10-08 07:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-08 07:41:20 · 9 answers · asked by stina 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Sorry, folks, but this subject is too hot to keep closed, so I'm re-opening it. As far as I'm concerned, Mark Foley is no more gay than Barney Frank is straight. It really galls me that there are too many people who cannot tell the difference between homosexuality and pedophilia.

I'm a blogger and I've found absolutely NO EVIDENCE that Mark Foley has ever had an ADULT male companion -- and no one I've spoken to who knows him and assumed that he was gay can recall Foley having an adult male companion, either.

Face it, the dude was a PEDOPHILE, not a GAY MAN. Gay men have relationships with MEN, not with BOYS. ADULTS who have sex with KIDS are PEDOPHILES -- PERIOD!

The idiot who posted that ridiculous comment about men raping boys as part of being gay must either be a member of the pedophile group NAMBLA or is a homophobic bigot. Only a pedophile or a homophobe would come up with such a ridiculous statement.

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2006-10-08 07:22:54 · 10 answers · asked by skeeter_sanders 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Long story short- I am a ftm transsexual, I told my dad, he just thinks I am a lesbian for some reason, and I cannot seem to get it though his head I am not, even though I am only attracted to guys, which he does not believe...

2006-10-08 07:21:54 · 19 answers · asked by James 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender