I am a taurus and taurus by nature are just jealous people. I even get jealous with people that I shouldn't get jealous with. Like if I see a female co-worker talkin with some other guy, who I've never seen, I get a twinge of jealousy which is stupid.
I get jealous when my GF tells me about her guy friends and whats going on with them. I get jealous when I hear about other guys trying to make moves on my GF.
I have been working on changing this because I got jealous once with my GF about having text messages with other guys and she set me straight with stuff so I have been getting better about it and tryin to understand that she has guys friends and I should try to accept that. I understand we both need to have friends of the opposite sex and what not. I just don't have a lot of friends that are girls. I do work in a field that is dominated by women though so I guess it evens out. I work closely with women mainly all day, every day. And we are all friendly towards each other.
2006-10-08 09:54:35 · 6 answers · asked by marie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Honestly, work on your own self esteem and build up your confidence in yourself. If you are more confident and feel better about yourself perhaps you won't feel threatened by other people. If your jealousy comes from something that happened in your past (i.e. betrayal from a g/f) bury the hatchet. Hope this helped. BTW I used to be a very jealous person but I feel better about myself then I did then. It actually does seem to help.
2006-10-08 09:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by Markin Gomez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been a Taurus alot longer than you have and I don't have a jealous bone in my body. Jealousy is not by nature its by insecurity and feelings of low self esteem. You need to get a handle on your insecurities and you will get a handle on your jealousy.
2006-10-08 15:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, to be honest you need to seek therapeutic advice. What you are describing appears to be deep-rooted and they need to be addressed. By staing on this current course you run the risk of not only placing your relationshio in jeopardy, but any future relationship(s) you may have if this one does not work out.
Maybe there are some other issues that lead to the increase in your jealousy...seek clinical advice.
2006-10-08 10:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by shortys_a_rider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey- no matter what nayone says remember you want to change thats what matters
you sais you are jelous by nature that is just a saying cause by nature means (natural)....lol
anyways I heard someone talking about this on the radio.
FOr good advice you should search jelousy on google, for expert attention.
I heard it has to do with you growing up, funny but thats it.
You know you do not why and you want to change....
I think when it happens- ask yourself why do you want to know more, what do you want to control. If you do are you really happier....probably no its just like an obsession.
This is called cognitive therapy you can look it up to, and infd someone in your area, it forces you to change by witnessing the bad thing as it happens.
Just remember you know its wrong- cause your a good guy and for that she is lucky to have you.
2006-10-08 11:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by everchanginggirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too am a jealous person-but i do let my g/f breathe-lol~
you can't be jealous to the point that they feel uncomfortable if someone speaks to them,or you will run them into someone Else's arms-so be careful!
2006-10-08 10:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tauruses are stubborn more so than jealous, if you believe the stuff, bet over yourself, build confidence, and talk to the people. that way you know both sides.
2006-10-09 06:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋