Cultures & Groups - 18 September 2006

I separated from my wife a while back. We married when I was nineteen, I am twenty-six now. I have secretly been looking for a way out without my parents asking odd questions for a while now.

She ended up pregnant, and the child is defiantly not mine, since it has been a LONG time since we had sex, and the child's (who was born recently) race proved it also. So easy way out, without my parents suspicion.

But I am tried of lying to them, I spent years lying to myself, and hated it. Finally I have mostly accepted it, but I am scared of EVER telling ANYONE. Even my best friend, who I think will accept me, as he is bi.

I am still trying to deal with accepting myself a bit, as I have not completely still...

By the way, from what I have said, would you call me evil...?

2006-09-18 23:40:37 · 38 answers · asked by Timothy R 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Here in Sheffield, men often say 'love' when talking to women, and men for that matter. In shops, on buses, or just in the street; 'Hello, love', 'You alright, love?', 'That's £2.50, love'. Does this annoy you? Do you find it too personal? Are there are any other colloquialisms that annoy you? (Phsycology homework!)

2006-09-18 23:16:14 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

What do you think of chavs? Are all chavs bad, do you think they sport bad dress sense, and have serious drug, alcohol and smoking habits? Anything else?

2006-09-18 23:01:19 · 2 answers · asked by $@Z 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

just wondering why these stereotypes are even here. i don't mind religion, straight people or whatever, just what do they mean to accomplish by being here?

2006-09-18 22:31:43 · 15 answers · asked by johnny_on_the_spot 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

all lesbians, tell me who you think is hot so i can see if we think the same? if i was gay i wouldnt want angelina the homewrecker whoore to be my gf. i would like sandra bullock becuase she down to earth?

2006-09-18 22:21:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-18 22:15:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Or do you think the Nawabs had too much time on their hands and were lazy?

2006-09-18 21:57:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

Need your advice. I'm in an 11month long relationship present time but it has turned rocky last night. Someone I met long time ago messaged me out of the blue and for some reason my partner took his number. Now that past guy told my partner that we had sex at OUR place when my partner wasn't around.. which is completely untrue!!! ANd my partner now swears he's going back to his hometown end of this month and said he doesn't love me anymore. :-(

2006-09-18 21:17:22 · 9 answers · asked by pinoy_rockstar 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

will young indians be able to practice gandhigiri in their day-to-day life

2006-09-18 20:34:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

Rather than doing myself,what do you recommend....of course it does costs outside, but is it worth getting it believing that it gives a close shave and painless ??

2006-09-18 20:05:52 · 7 answers · asked by swarna 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I am a straight married Christian girl and I want to understand gay people. Please do not lash out at me as I am attempting to understand. I have several gay friends but of course I am attracted to the opposite sex so I do not understand what makes a person gay. Maybe there is no answer. My gay friends are looking for true love and that I understand...But I went to the gay bar with them and I was totally freaked by what I saw. There were large orgies of men making out with each other all over the place. I then began to think that gayness was a perversion all about sex. Now I am torn and really want to understand is it about sex or monogamous love? Also, most of the gay people I know have had some traumatic experience in their childhood and I wonder if that has something to do with it or if it is a coincidence. Are you born gay or is it a choice? Again, loaded questions I know-I am just trying to understand people who are different than me-that's all.

2006-09-18 19:45:15 · 20 answers · asked by Jess 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

wet dream???

2006-09-18 18:43:59 · 18 answers · asked by scratch golfer 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

You always think of the nerdy guy in a western movie as wearing them. Its like, underneath the suit jacket, on the inner shirt part thats underneath the vest in a 3-piece suit.

2006-09-18 18:43:17 · 3 answers · asked by classykale 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Why does society as a whole seem to accept lesbians more than homosexual men?

Is it just me that thinks this is the case?

2006-09-18 18:40:20 · 17 answers · asked by drunkon80 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Honestly we should search for a cure for this mental illness. Any ideas?

2006-09-18 18:39:40 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-18 18:34:14 · 26 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-18 18:31:53 · 11 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-18 18:30:02 · 7 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

at 24 I was already too old for the gay scene. What a joke...I'm 57 and let me tell you it gets BETTER with age...much better...I wish I had known then what I know now....I'm sure that only GLBTs my age will understand this. But now people my age just look like people my age and I find them attractive as well. I never thought I'd feel like this....did you??

2006-09-18 18:28:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship right now, she's a few hours away, and she has been always openly bi-curious, right from day 1 I found out. From what I know, she has only had 1 sexual partner that was female, and pretty much only as a F**k buddy. We say we love each other, and I am completely loyal, and she says she will behave herself, and not sleep around............but I have my doubts. She has a troubled past you see, she talks about her ex's all the time, (apparently there are 8 ), and she seems to have stayed friends with a few, even though when they were lovers she was being beaten. I just dont know......she's surrounded by all these sexual partners, im 157 miles away, and she's going to strip clubs and such, gawking at women, talking fondly of her ex's.....Can I trust her? I dont like to call my girl 'easy', but when alcohol and drugs are involved she is pretty loose.....I dont have a prob with her being bi, I just don't want to be cheated on...confused

2006-09-18 18:23:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

What would have happened if this man was white talking about black people? Mass riots? you betcha..he recieved nop penalty or bad press.....he actualy got applauded..listen...

2006-09-18 18:00:49 · 5 answers · asked by cat c 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-09-18 17:58:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-18 17:33:26 · 15 answers · asked by fresh2 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

... as a persecuted homosexual they might shut the ***** up?

2006-09-18 17:31:41 · 15 answers · asked by drunkon80 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

What is the purpose of Terrorist Attacks. Is there a real negotiation against them, and what can anyone offer to a terrorist to convince them it isn't the right path?

2006-09-18 17:31:31 · 8 answers · asked by detecting_it 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-09-18 17:29:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Especially gay coworkers, I have two and their both oblivious to the fact I'm one of them. It's wierd having everyone think i"m straight but at the same there would be unnecessary drama if certain people knew I'm gay. It's kind of a toss up, what would you do?

2006-09-18 17:28:20 · 14 answers · asked by Jeff 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-18 17:18:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-18 17:17:11 · 29 answers · asked by scotto destructo 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I would like to know

2006-09-18 16:55:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups