2006-09-18 18:34:14 · 26 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
look at the mirror and tell myself "u are beautiful!he's just a troll who dumped you down, not becoz u r bad, but becoz he is a TROLL"
and make it true...beautifies ur self...inside and outside...
peace!
2006-09-18 19:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by ribbon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truthful answer from me is everyday I wake up and actually do nothing unless I want to check my email or answer questions on here. I eat, sleep, go out every once and a while if I'm up to it. Seriously I mooch off my parents and don't contribute to society by getting a job. I feel miserable, but it's comfortable. I hang on knowing that I can't commit suicide because it would hurt my family and nothing helps to take my mind off of her. It's been nine months and I still think about her from the moment I wake up until I go to sleep. If this isn't surviving then I don't know what it is.
2006-09-19 03:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by 4me2no&u2findout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go through the motions. there is no quick fire solution. I know i'm now in the last stages of heart break because a woman i know has asked me out numerous times since my break up 8 months ago with long term girlfriend of 2 1/5 years, and i'm going on a date with her on thursday. It takes time the only thing you can't do is think of all the things you could of done to stop you from feeling so broken. You have to focus on the future now. Good luck hunny and take care xoxo
2006-09-18 19:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the past be past bec whatever u do, u cannot change what had happened. Learn from it, move on. It was meant for u to be a stronger person. The world is full of events that will give u a hreatbreak. if not today, tomorrow, next month or next year, bec nothing in this world is ever forever. so people will come and go, possessions will come and go, happiness will come and go.. dont let it define ur value and happiness.
2006-09-18 19:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my g/f are still together-but i'm fixing to be going through the heart break myself-cause i think she's fixing to leave me,and we've been together for almost 4 years.Part of me wants to fight with all i have to keep her-But then i have this voice in me that keeps saying if her heart isn't in it-whats the use!My heart is breaking now- i don't know what the hell i'm gonna do when she's gone!I know people go through this every day-and i tell myself i will be ok-But i just don't know! People say finding someone else helps-But how can someone else replace the one u love? You can be with anyone-but to be inlove with someone is totally different! Man life really sucks sometimes!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-20 05:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by not wallowing in self pitty about the past. I'm a doctor so live life to the fullest 3 times a day companied by forgetting the past- take as need and call me in 2 weeks LOL
2006-09-19 05:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by jenniferphariss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek A Friend With Benifits
2006-09-18 18:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You live with it forever.
Seriously you learn to live with the pain and the hurt but it never goes away. Sitting around waiting for that to happen will take up your whole life.
My partner died of cancer 3 years ago. Whoever said time was a great healer was lying.
2006-09-18 18:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by n2mustaches 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A great multitude of sad songs particularly in Flamenco and a bottle or two of wine, a trusty friend and lots of time to think about how bad they were to you.
Good luck!
2006-09-18 18:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jehan J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you've heard this, but time, and concentrating on other things, positive things that occupy your time and thoughts.
Let yourself cry, just wake each day knowing, that its a day closer to feeling better and you are not alone out there.
2006-09-18 18:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by bburgandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋