I'm posting this in the gay section hoping for more understanding replies.
I have a gay male friend, who is gay in that he has no interest in women at all, and a very slight attraction to men. But really he has no sex drive, doesn't enjoy sexual contact, and is very happy being celibate.
The trouble is that because he has no sexual desire, he doesn't seem to realise that other people do. When I visit him, he sits very close to me and will casually put his hand on my thighs and breasts. He knows not to touch nipples or genitals, but he seems to think everything else is okay.
He is a very attractive man, physically and personality-wise, and he doesn't seem to realise how this affects me. It doesn't turn HIM on, so he can't see how it might turn ME on. I've tried explaining that there are lots of erogenous zones on the body, but it's like explaining colour to a blind person.
How can I get through to him without being offensive or insensitive?
2006-09-08
14:27:59
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Girl Machine
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