She has been joking about this for a while and she told me i had to try it or she wouldnt have an_l sex again untill i did,even as much as she likes to be penetrated back there.So i figured ok thats fair i guess.Problem is i could never see myself with another man,i have no hate issues with the ones who do, but its just not my turn on.Well once i relaxed i actually liked it especially when she reached around with a helping hand which only took about 10 pulls and i was shooting fireworks.
2006-09-08 13:44:40 · 15 answers · asked by donjovi2 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, see my post about why people like anal sex. Anyway, you have a prostate gland which can be stimulated through the wall of the rectum during anal penetration; this is the male G-spot and is a very sensitive and sexually powerful place which is pleasurable to all men, regardless of whether or not they are homosexual or not.
2006-09-08 13:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it just means that "your girlffriend done you with a strap on and you liked it"! lol. Anal penetration by your female significant other doesn't make you gay. There are a lot of nerve endings in the prostate area that just love the feeling of being stimulated.
Now, if you were fantasizing that your girl was a guy, then there might be the thought that you were bi or gay. The fact is (unspoken but there) that a lot of straight guys do enjoyy anal...the getting...and it doesn't make them gay at all. It's just a new dimension to add some spice to your sex life.
2006-09-08 15:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Using a strap on in heterosexual sex has nothing to do with being homosexual. Did it ever occur to you that its not the sex act that makes you heterosexual, but your responses on all levels to the opposite gender? Same for homosexuals.
Anal play is highly erotic as all smart women know, and its the same when a woman used a strap on with a man. There is no comparison to same gender sex. You got really excited because it was the woman jerking you off, it wouldn't be the same with a man at all.
Good for you for being open sexually to a whole knew experience!
2006-09-08 15:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are really hung up on this Gay thing, aren't you. Lots of couples use strap ons....men are built to enjoy getting it if the mood and timing is right...hits right up there on the prostate, a sexual center for feeling. Go for it, but you better learn to relax and go with the flow first..otherwise, will hurt. And please be cleaned out before all this goes on. And, think of the empowerment your gal will have! She sounds like a fun gal to me..no hang ups. Good luck
2006-09-08 13:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it does not make you gay. It makes you aware that you have a lot of sensitive nerve endings in your anus and a prostate that likes to be stimulated.
If you feel like experimenting further, try concentrating on what's going on in your butt and go with it rather than stimulating your willy. It's possible to have an anal orgasm, and like the elusive vaginal orgasm, rhythmic and prolonged stimulation is the way to get there.
You also need to relax deeply. A bit of pot combined with poppers will help you get there. Alcohol dulls the senses.
PS the male G spot myth is just that - a myth.
2006-09-08 13:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, dearheart, a lot of men actually "get it" from their wives and girl freinds. It just is another way to have sex and have a good time. I agree with Sprig though. if you don't see a man driving that tool then you're not gay. Have a good time.
2006-09-08 14:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. You just like interesting, creative sex with your girlfriend.
2006-09-08 14:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by wicked64 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly...i was a little shocked when I read this question and answers...BUT... I respect your own individuality...and if you like your girlfriend doing what she does...then do it... Expermenting is always fun...
2006-09-08 14:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by millerdealer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you think of your gay? this is the huge form a million question, who cares approximately approximately your kinky mattress room antics, yet while your asking the question perhaps you have theory-approximately what it would be like...
2016-12-15 04:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by bloodsaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want a man driving that "tool", you are not gay.
2006-09-08 13:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋