The other day I got up the nerve to wear a flowery spring dress and high heels in a hotel. I was so nervouse but it was awesome! Im not sure if it would be better to do it in a place that is very public or not so public. Its fun to watch people's expressions. Especially from other girls wearing something similar. What do you think?? And say something else besides "Oh, you need serious help" Or something cliche like that. Thanks!!
2006-09-08 12:57:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If thats how you are comfortable go for it! If you are doing it juts for attention then consider other outlets, like art. where I grew up the only comment you would get is hey thats a nice dress, where can I get one. We just dont care so long as your happy.
2006-09-08 13:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by mother_of_bonehead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be examining your motivation a little more closely.
What is it for you that is so awesome about wearing womens clothes?
Do you wear women's clothes in private too? Or does your motivation stem primarily from a need to attract attention and shock others?
If it is the latter I'm afraid that when some meatball marks you down as a "trannie" you are likely to get punched on the nose and what's more I won't have much sympathy for you.
You need to say more about why you want to do this.
Was this the first time you ever put a dress on?
Were you made up?
Did you shave your legs?
Did you put on a wig?
Did you wear jewellery?
You are not necessarily doing anything "wrong", but when you transgress social codes in a public place you could well get into trouble. I think I read somewhere that 1 in 10 men have had some experience of crossdressing. The question is do you NEED to do it for your peace of mind?
2006-09-08 13:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, dearie. Going out in public is a big step for a crossdresser. Good for you! Since you like to watch people's expressions you must like the attention. Are you passable as a girl or do you do it to shock others? Do you dress up completely or just the dress and heels? Whatever you like, go for it. If people can't handle it, too bad. Some people are just narrow minded and never have any fun.
2006-09-08 13:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by debbysfemail 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If thats your thing, do it. If your a guy, just realize you'll never look as sexy in a feminine way as real girls do. I'm not hatin, just pointing out the facts to make sure you know there's a huge differecne when girls dress in sexy feminine clothes, versus when guys do it.
Unless the guy was naturally born incredibly feminine looking, but thats extremely rare. There's usually something masculine about them one way or another whther that be a big forehead, a big neck and throat, etc.
2006-09-08 12:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the same time as women folk gown provocatively in parts that are literally not threat-free, they are performing foolishly. The Florida Church became further performing foolishly. for sure they don't have any direct duty for the deaths that spoke of, yet they are nevertheless fools, and they did study that there are effects to moves, or perchance they already knew that and revel contained in the deaths. Take that to Peter on the Pearly Gates and word if it receives them in.
2016-11-06 22:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by fleitman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you had fun. However what you are suggesting is not with the consent of the other people you want to show off to. That's not right or fair.
This is a brand new experience for you, find some other cross dressers in your community and get some guidance and support.
2006-09-08 15:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with wearing girls clothes at all
but be careful as people that do not understand may couse you greaf
be free to wear what you want. after all they are just clothes and if you thiing of it that way it makes the nerves about what other people may or may not be thinking.
good luck and have fun out and about.
2006-09-08 22:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Zara3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think thats awesome! normally i might say youre weird but i've been thinking about the gay and straight thing for a while now and i've been reading ppl's answers and questions about gays and everything and i htink that you can do whatever the hell you want honey and dont let any asshole stop you! you can wear anythign you want, say anything, do anything, be anything... if a girl can walk around in heals and a dress, even the fat ugly ones, why cant you?!?! go ahead honey and srtut your stuff!!! :-D :-D
Felicia
2006-09-08 13:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Juno. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it was pretty brave. Stay brave and continue to be who you are.
I'm a woman who wears jeans and t-shirts all the time and nobody gives me a second glance.
There's such a double standard and it's really unfair to both men and women.
Please be careful of where you do this. Some places just aren't safe.
2006-09-08 14:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by wicked64 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never take advice from people who can't spell simple words.
*****, vary? Sheesh.
Wear whatever you like. Get some books on crossdressing and get in some practice before you go out in public though
2006-09-08 13:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋