Cultures & Groups - 8 August 2006

I don't want to know how you THINK you will react (i.e. some people think that they will be reasonable and accept, but when it actually happens, they flip out and start b*tching)...
I want you to actually close your eyes and imagine the situation unfolding before you, and the first reaction that pops into your head is most likely the way you will react...

2006-08-08 13:11:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-08-08 13:00:39 · 22 answers · asked by TerraJC 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Honest question, also plz stop telling me im going 2 hell!

2006-08-08 12:54:26 · 19 answers · asked by gezzdaman44 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

what is your everyday life saying to others? how do you carry yourself?

2006-08-08 12:50:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

A friend of mine told me that israel indvaded lebanon so that hezbolla would stop throwing wild gay orgies. They were too loud and bothered the people. When they asked hezbolla to stop, hezbolla kidnapped and sodomized some israeli soldiers. So now they have a war. Its like i support gay rights, but not by force like hezbolla seems to want.
Who is right, and how can they stop all of this mess?

2006-08-08 12:27:52 · 14 answers · asked by trisha m 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-08-08 12:24:53 · 19 answers · asked by chris f 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

A lot of doctors and engineers are REALLY smart analytically, but some cannot communicate well, for example. Some have terrible interpersonal skills, too.

2006-08-08 12:19:15 · 6 answers · asked by sumita_bnrj 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

i just found out my daughter is gay and her lover and her is wanting to get married and i need to findout for them what state will let them be married?
anyone know this

2006-08-08 12:18:50 · 16 answers · asked by DENISE 6 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I was so pissed my boyfriend and I were at a resturant and he told me that he had been cheating on me and he was going to leave me for a white woman because "I wasn't feeling his struggle","he only liked lighted-skinned,he also said some hurtful things about my family"they are too country and ghetto"(BTW my family is proper, he just said that becaus eof my country cousins) and he dumped me because I stopped relaxing my hair. WTF? How shallow is he? Why are so many Black men like this? I don't mind brother's dating white women but why do some of them have to bash their own women?

2006-08-08 12:09:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

I am a bisexual-bi-curious, I should say-female teenager. I've never been with a guy or a girl (I've never kissed or gone further with a guy or girl), but I'm pretty sure I could go either way. Should I tell my parents/family/friends? I mean, I'm pretty sure I'm a bi, but some people say it's too soon to tell. Should I tell, if I am pretty sure?!

2006-08-08 12:09:35 · 38 answers · asked by REDHED4 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

It was real interesting. I was downtown and I was getting a lot of attention from a lot of South Asian people( particularly men). They were asking me are you from India, Pakistan, or Bangladesh. I told them no I'm Black. I was told that I look south asian because I have dark skin and silky/wavy hair. But really I have Black, French, Creole, and Native American heritage. I also been mistaken for a Somalian woman or a Guyanese woman. Weird.

2006-08-08 12:08:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-08-08 12:03:10 · 4 answers · asked by drivegtis 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

We have been together over 5 years , been through a lot but now he has been out of work for more than 2 years now and I cracking under the preasure of having to do it all myself , I do not know how to tell him , I do not want to hurt him or get into an argument . Just want him to help . I am putting many things on the shelf to keep a roof over our heads and wheels under our feet . Please help me .

2006-08-08 11:59:18 · 19 answers · asked by Love loss 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Does it bother anyone else that most of the topics in this category are so shallow. It just kind of depresses me reading some of the topics that are posted. Isn't it like we are asking people to look down on and hate gays when we post things like "Why does my mother lick the sperm of my dad`s bellybutton, they invited me to do the same?is it normal?" or "Gee,My friend just turned into a gay and were like best friends , I want to turn also but she wont tell me how". But I do also have to give props to those that ask good questions like ones that actually challenge our way of thinking.

I guess it just kind of depresses me because everyone gets all up in arms when somebody comments and it's a homophobic response but we don't really do anything to improve our image to the outside world.

I don't know. I guess I might just need to get off my high horse and get a different perspective on things.

drew

2006-08-08 11:57:27 · 29 answers · asked by Drew 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Isn't that discrimination? Didn't they put the indians there, too?

2006-08-08 11:56:57 · 3 answers · asked by Ejsenstejn 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I'm 26 male and insecure b/c I haven't had a girlfriend, kissed a girl, or had sex with a girl. I get very nervous around attractive girls. I was a virgin until 23 when I met a guy online just to lose my virginity. I was w/ a guy b/c I didn't expect to be w/ a girl anytime soon. I've been w/ several guys since then, all met online. I fantasize and am attracted to girls, but cannot get with girls. Girls flirt w/ me, but I dont have the confidence to act. The only people that seem to want me are the guys I meet online. Sometime when I was 6-8 yrs old, my grandfather groped my crotch once. My grandmother saw and told me to never tell my parents, which I still haven't b/c my grandfather passed and it's a small issue. I remember being a sexual person even before this incident. I used to hang out with mostly girls and play with dolls b/c I wanted to be close to girl friends. Only after an adult counselor chided me did I start to hang out with guys only and become closed off to females.

2006-08-08 11:41:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-08-08 11:33:06 · 7 answers · asked by Paulaa c: 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

i have bittersweet memories of......

2006-08-08 11:25:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

Lately, my gurl has been having problems. Because some past issues with her mom were brought to the surface. They're not good things at all. I'm the only person in her life that hasn't lied to her or cheated on her or anything of the sort. But, lately she's been pushing me away, no matter what I do. If you ladies were in my gurls situation what would you want your girlfriend to do to get you to understand that she does love you?

I've done everything from talking to her, to making to to her (yes, making love... not just sex). But, whenever someone from her past pops up it seems as if all my work is blown to East Hell... but I do love her so much and I refuse to give up on her.

Any idea on what I should do next?

2006-08-08 11:18:50 · 8 answers · asked by CartoonFreak1985 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Why are there no strip clubs with women for women? In Los Angeles it seems like there's a strip club on every other block, but none designed for gay females. The only way I'll go to a strip club is with a large group of females, not just me and my gf. Guy customers seem to get mixed up about who will and will not be taking off their clothes. Guys also seem to get embarressed whenever a party of women show up at a strip club. It's like they're suddenly embarressed to be there.

2006-08-08 11:07:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Is it just me or does it seem like today there are a lot of jackasses posting questions in this particular forum?

2006-08-08 10:59:05 · 10 answers · asked by CartoonFreak1985 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-08-08 10:57:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I have always found the female form to be repulsing. How do you feel? Guys and Girls answer please.

2006-08-08 10:50:41 · 16 answers · asked by ↓ImWithStupid ░░▒▒▓▓ 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I get the feeling you'll think we (Men) want you casue your gay. There are plenty of Respectable, Men, Fathers, uncles, brother whoever that could care less.

To me Gay women get after each other is like guys that only talk to drunk girls. Where's the challenge. Your both women, there's nothing to adjust to or learn or figure out. You want to be good at sex, practice on yourself and then try it on her. Nothing to learn

When I'm with a woman I have no idea where her thoughts come from somtimes but I have to figure out a way to adjust, a female brain is alot to handle for a male period. A married man and woman of 50 years thats awesome, because of the fundament differneces between men and women. We argue, we fight, we laugh we cry. Gayness thats just two women hanging out( roomates), taking the easy way out. How hard could it be?

PS I know I'll get some hate but it's cool, Black men in America we ain't scared of SH** so say what you gotta say.

2006-08-08 10:50:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I have never fuc.ked before and I want to know how you do it? I`ve seen my parents in action and tried on a ballon but I don`t realy know how to do it? My parents showed me but I didn`t understand I`m 21 and still never done a sexual act in my life.I got invite to group sex and pervertion acts but refused because I was shy of not knowing how to do it . I need guidance? How do I fuc.k someone .(I`m gay BTW)

2006-08-08 10:49:45 · 12 answers · asked by Crystal Elisabeth 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

my dad and his girlfriend have not married and i want to know if it is wrong to have a crush on my dads girlfriends sisters daughter...

2006-08-08 10:40:34 · 2 answers · asked by victor nivorsky 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-08-08 10:40:32 · 16 answers · asked by m3brad2002 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-08-08 10:37:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-08-08 10:34:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

Do you really want to be gay, or is it just something you choose to do? I'm just wondering...I'm conservitave...all the way. I just want to ask you guys who would know. Thanks!

2006-08-08 10:34:09 · 17 answers · asked by Britt 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender