If a woman can't have an orgasm? Is that noraml?

Question

During intercourse!

Answer 1

If you are asking this then you are probably too young to be having sex. Don't do something you'll regret kiddo.

Whatever guy(s) you're doing stuff with will not be there for you if you get pregnant, and they certainly will not be there for you once you're out of school.

edit...Ok so you're a mom of four. I really missed the target on this one. =) To answer your question, I'm sure every woman is different. Asking this type of question will basically get you variations of two very basic answers: yes and no. Having an orgasm is a very personal thing and only you will know how to get there. Talk to your husband. I bet if you told him about your problem he would be more than enthusiastic about helping you out. Probably the only reason he hasn't done anything about it yet is that he does not know that he is doing anything wrong. I hope this helps. Sorry for my automatic assumption earlier. =)

Answer 2

There are a few qualifications for orgasm in women:

1. Are you 100% comfortable with your man? That helps if you are.
2. Are you comfortable with your body? Same.
3. Are you over-thinking things? Don't focus on the orgasm.
4. Are you getting sufficient foreplay? Have him touch you a lot down there until you're REALLY aroused.
5. You need to be on top. Men last longer when you are. Also it gives you a chance to take control and find "your spot" (you will probably start moaning when you find it).

By the way, yes you're normal. I'm positive if you follow my advice you will get an orgasm AT LEAST once out of every 5-10 times at first, and more as time goes on. Keep on having sex often, it will be worth it!!

Answer 3

Yes I believe it's normal. I can't orgasm either through intercourse as you read my question. I don't feel a single thing. Not even a tingle sensation. Try focusing on the clitoris while masturbating or have your partner just rub it. If you still can't orgasm, try different things that work for you. As you probably heard a million of times, everyone is different. It'll take time and you'll get there. I know I can only orgasm through humping a pillow or blanket during masturbation and oral gets me halfway there, but not quite even though I enjoy oral tremendously! Good luck and thank you for answering my question!

Answer 4

I wouldn't call it abnormal. I would say that many women have experienced this at some point. I know that I have and I mean I would really be concentrating and take it home but I just couldn't. That is very frustrating. A bit like being very thirsty on a scorching summer day and having ice water passed back and forth before your lips and only being allowed to taste the beads that drop from the cup when you really want to gulp it down or at least sip it steadily. You and your partner need to change positions and/or explore each other's body and find your g-spot. This is very important in reaching orgasm. Be patient and keep at it.

Answer 5

About 80% of women never have an orgasm. Another 10% can't orgasm through intercourse.

Answer 6

Are you asking is it normal for a woman not to have an orgasm during intercourse? Yes, it is normal. Some knows how to "hit" that spot; others, don't.

Answer 7

It is very normal. Not all women can have orgasms from penetration alone. The vagina only has nerve endings (feeling) in the first like 3 inches. Most women only reach orgasm by clitoral stimulation. It can be very frustrating and disappointing, but you're not alone. It's very normal... I myself do have them from intercourse... but I'm lucky. Maybe you haven't found the right man yet... but even if you have, you're still normal. Don't let anyone tell you differently.

Answer 8

Yes. Most times during heterosexual sex only one party will orgasm; mainly the male. It's harder for a female to orgasm because the internal spot that gets the "best" reaction isn't always hit and it's rare that the clitoris is stimulated during sex (the clitoris being the most common and easiest way for a female to orgasm).

Answer 9

Your husband is either not paying attention to your body or is too concerned with his own more.You should be able to reach an orgasm by intercourse although a lot of women don't with out clitoris stimulation,if he cant do it during sex then you can,help yourself to satisfaction.
Does your husband use oral sex to stimulate you before intercourse,that works very well at raising your level of desire so that you can achieve orgasm during intercourse.And honey don't fret about this,just get to know your body so that way your husband will learn from you how to please you .good luck :)

Answer 10

If a woman is unable to orgasm with a partner that she loves, or lusts, or finds attractive, or even likes an insy bit. Then unfortunately it is all in the head that is holding you back. First try to orgasm solo and find what you like, then when you do find a great partner discuss likes and dislikes.