I am a straight married Christian girl and I want to understand gay people. Please do not lash out at me as I am attempting to understand. I have several gay friends but of course I am attracted to the opposite sex so I do not understand what makes a person gay. Maybe there is no answer. My gay friends are looking for true love and that I understand...But I went to the gay bar with them and I was totally freaked by what I saw. There were large orgies of men making out with each other all over the place. I then began to think that gayness was a perversion all about sex. Now I am torn and really want to understand is it about sex or monogamous love? Also, most of the gay people I know have had some traumatic experience in their childhood and I wonder if that has something to do with it or if it is a coincidence. Are you born gay or is it a choice? Again, loaded questions I know-I am just trying to understand people who are different than me-that's all.
2006-09-18
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender