I was raised to always pick up the check, I turned out gay, but that's a different story. I just can't help myself, he likes to eat out a lot, and always wants to pay, but I always have to take the check away from him, or tell the waiter in advance to give it to me. He's an engineer, I'm a teacher. On one hand, it's very costly for me to keep paying for eating out every night. On the other hand, he makes more money than me and always wants to pay.
I just don't know how can I get over myself and let him pay or at least be confortable going deutch.
I may sound dumb, but I like feeling in the man in the relationship, maybe that's why I just can't do it.
How can I be confortable with myself letting him pay?
2006-08-31
10:18:34
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