Why are peple so scared of gays & lesbians?

Question

Why do people find guy and lesbian people so offensive? are you scared? Do you think they fancy you Why?

Answer 1

I think we bother them most when they start to see they should let us live the way we want and they don't like to be wrong.... OK maybe that was just wish full thinking LOL

Answer 2

People who are secure with there own sexuality just ignor gays why wouldnt they.... its the poster and guys that cant stay away from the glbtg questions that are the real worry .....lol

WHY do they bother to post and to hate so much?

The core cause of this fear is the result of the fact that many homophobes, including most virulent, violent homophobes are themselves repressed sexually, often with same sex attractions. One of the recent studies done at the University of Georgia among convicted killers of gay men has shown that the overwhelmingly large percentage of them (more than 70%) exhibit sexual arousal when shown scenes of gay sex. The core fear, then, for the homophobe is that he himself might be gay, and might be forced to face that fact. The homophobia can be as internalized as it is externalized - bash the queer and you don't have to worry about being aroused by him.

All they gotta do is ask nicely ime sure someone will do them ....lol

Secondly there prob just so bored with there lives there terrified gays may be doing it better or enjoying it better…and this unfortunately is very true..we do!

WHY do gays enjoy it all more ?

1..They usually have better jobs
2..Drive newer cars
3..Work out at the gym so have better bods
4..Generally dress better and look more groomed
5..Are kind to there mothers even when there bitches
6..Do not have 4 kids in walmart destroying the joint
7..Go to the theater more and understand it.
8..Have cuter dogs,and wash them
9..Have a lot of sex
10...Seem to be happier most of the time.
11.Have higher disposable income so help the economy......

someone has to help keep the rednecks in the trailer of there dreams .....lol

Answer 3

Where I live there is a big lesbian community, it doesn't bother me at all. (I am not a lesbian happily married with kids)

What I don't like is when we have warm weather and they are kissing each other on the local park and near enough stripping each other. (not all of them do this maybe 6 couples I get the feeling they do this for a reaction)
I don't like it when heterosexual couples are kissing on the park either so it is not a lesbian thing.

We have to take our kids past them to get to the swing park. A lot of houses near me don't have gardens, so the park is the only safe place to play.

A positive thing I have found in gay/lesbians bars is if you tell them you are straight they accept it and don't hassle you all night. I can't say the same for straight pubs unfortunately.

I don't have a problem if it is 11.00pm at night and they are on their way from the pub.

Answer 4

People are scared of what they know nothing about. They feel threatend by gays and feel like they are taking over and infringing on their rights. If they stopped for a second and took an honest look at the situation they'd see gays are wonderful people who are just fighting for equality the way so many minority groups have done in the past.

Answer 5

Well at least the blacks should be happy you are around.The Bashers needed some fresh meat to go after.Remember the violence against blacks in the 50's and 60's?Too much federal involvement caused the bashers to back off.Now they have a fresh target.You might not think this is right,but you have to admit it is true.

Answer 6

Scared means being afraid of. A very great number of people don't approve of two men sexually satisfying each other. Same for two women.
Not approving or not understanding had nothing to do with fear. I don't see how you could even suggest such a thing
Your other question as to what do people find offensive about two men doing- - - you know what to each other is self explanatory. It's about as disgusting as can be imagined.
Do they fancy me ? They're " fancy " enough without me, leave me alone.

Answer 7

I am not scared of gays or lesbians and you shouldn't be scared because they are no better or no worst than us. They are normal people like us but only different. Maybe they just want ta pay less taxes or something.

Answer 8

First, I find the practice disgusting, just to let you know what side of the fence I'm on. But I'm not scared of g&l. I read in the Bible that God calls them abominable, but I don't hate g&l, and as I read it, God doesn't hate the people either.

As for what makes them offensive? That I can easily answer. When hetersexual actions cause people to yell or possibly more politely mutter, "Get a room" for public displays of affection, that is what I find offensive in g&l, public displays of affection. If one of my dogs started meowing and mating with my cat, that would be less strange in my mind than the horrible prissiness performed horribly (we're talking terrible acting here), done in public as if nothing were strange or abnormal, that is offensive.

Society has certain norms--and that's not normal. Society used to have certain mores--and that fits outside those moral manners. Society has long allowed such in a reserved way the way they used to treat other aspects of behavior. You don't deficate in the middle of the street or on the dining room table, you take it out of sight to a place reserved for such.

As for your final question, yes some have propositioned me, and no I wasn't then, and am not now, interested. It is like spam, I said no once, so don't keep coming back.

Answer 9

I think gays and lesbians are human; most humans are found to be offensive, most human are scared of other human, and do you think humans fancy you Why?

....I'm not afraid and think gays and lesbians are fancy because they are humans.....When human begin to fancy each other the world will be as one

Answer 10

i was in my school's 6th form college, i was 16/17. one of my groups of friends consisted of 5 guys and 5 girls (roughly). i was nice and discreet. sometimes we hung out and drunk or smoked pot. some of the guys fancied some of the girls and some of the girls fancied some of the guys. we enjoyed life. we went out together a lot. one day one of the guys, someone i got on with, came out as gay. it freaked me and the other straight guys out. guys were guys and discussed girls and vice versa. we came from a small town. did he fancy any of us? did he want in our pants or what? he'd been something we didn't think he was. me and the others were never comfortable around him again. things were never the same and eventually he found a new group of people to hang around with.

do you understand?

Answer 11

I just came across an article and you may want to read it and wonder why you get such aggressive answers. It's written by a gay man. I think it may explain to you why members of an isolated community, which defines itself just through their sexual habits, are met with repulsion, rejection, no understanding whatsoever and aggression. And this is just one but the newest habit members of the gay community came up with.

I am sure that it will be blamed on the CIA, government, and 'the society' as well. And pamphlets have to printed, therapists paid, conventions held, advisers sent, with MY tax dollars to stop this trend. But please read for yourself. I am scared of the stuff your 'community' comes up with and always will be.


Bug Chaser & Gift Giver Parties
From Ramon Johnson,
Your Guide to Gay Life.

What is a "bug chaser?"

A bug chaser is a gay man who deliberately attempts to contract HIV by having unprotected sex with a man or group of men who are known to have the virus.

What is a "gift giver?"

A gift giver is an HIV positive gay man who deliberately transmits the virus, often times to bug chasers, or those willing to contract it.

What are bug parties?

Bug parties are sex parties often ranging from a few to as much as 30 people. Unsafe sex with every participant at the party is encouraged. There are several variations of bug parties. At some, there is one member of the "orgy" that is HIV positive. Only this individual and the host know his positive status. The remaining participants know that there is an infected person in the room, but do not know his identity. The participants then partake in a night usually filled with alcohol, drugs and of course unsafe sex.

In other variations of a bug party, there is one person who is not infected with HIV, however the other participants are or may be. Every one is aware of the person who disease free. The HIV negative person then allows the infected guys to have unprotected anal sex with him.

Why do people participate in bug parties?

Many psychologists theorize that participation in bug parties is actually an anxiety disorder where the non-infected individuals fear getting HIV so greatly that they would rather contract it and free themselves of the anxiety of living in fear. These parties are also seen as a sort of club for those living with HIV. Infecting a HIV negative and willing participant initiates them into their world. Some people also engage in unprotected anal sex (or barebacking) as the fear for AIDS dangerously dwindles.

"The Gift" from filmmaker Louise Hogarth is a documentary about gay men who purposely contract HIV. According to Rolling Stone, one character in the film admits "I was relieved. I didn't have to worry. Do I need to be careful -- not any more." Yet another willing 21-year-old regrets his choice. "I've made a terrible mistake and there's no fixing that. There is no benefit in this and that's what needs to be said."