It doesn't matter if I am one of not, but I cannot stand it when someone asks. If I respond with "I'm not telling you," or "That's kind of private..." most people think I am a virgin and I am trying to make some lame attempt to make them think I want them to wonder. It usually backfires.
I've also tried telling them straight up "no" or "yes", just to see if they'll stop. It doesn't work. If you tell them you are a virgin, they'll ask why I don't want to have sex, why girls don't like me, and stuff. If I tell them I am not a virgin, they ask me to go into explicit explanations of my sexual ventures. I don't even see how discussing virginity is appropriate in any situation-- even with some of your good friends. I find it especially awkward when it is a girl asking me. I just feel a little violated.
I know some people who would post their virginity status on a billboard if they could, but not me.
What's a good response for the "Are you a virgin?" question?
Thanks for your input, guys
2006-07-24
16:39:00
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doubled254
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