A friend of mine can go on talking for 25-30 minutes, often changing the subject about two or three times in the process, before I or anyone else has said a word. When he finally stops, he does not realize that the reason there is silence is not because nobody wants to say anything, but that everyone is trying to either mentally catch up with what he just said (he's an extremely fast talker) or they now need a mental break to refresh themselves. I suspect he is autistic, and have told him so, but he refuses to get checked by a doctor. I have tried to politely let him know that this tendency is very mentally draining on others, and is the reason why he has a hard time making friends, but it goes i one ear and out the other with him. I am about to bluntly tell him, "SHUT UP!" the next time he goes off on one of these tangents. The guy just doesn't realize he mentally drains others with his endless tyrades. What would you do??
2006-07-19
19:29:55
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