My aunt and uncle live on the east coast and whenever they come out for a visit, they don't tell us beforehand. Usually it's a phone call like "oh, we're in town and we want to come see you today." If we don't see them during their visit, they go back home and tell other relatives "we went all the way out there and didn't even get to see them."
And now my cousins (their grown children) do the same thing. I know a simple meal or meeting isn't too much to ask (after all, we could say no), but it's very annoying. Like my cousin called us this morning, they arrived last night. She wanted to come see us tomorrow (we said we had plans). So then my cousin said "well, what about Monday or Tuesday" (considering we have to work all day and they are staying 30+ miles away), that's not an option either.
We've told them before, oh maybe next time you could let us know ahead of time. We're not even that close - and if it were me, I wouldn't even bother to let them know I was in town.
2006-06-24
12:24:35
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