Whenever we're introduced to someone new, the first question people ask is "oh, what do you do"....like, it defines who that person is.
This has become just something customary, that's just asked. If you really think about it though it seems like we're actually providing people with a "quick take" of what we're about. But, in reality, I don't think people generally define themselves by what they do, even when they like their jobs. It's just one aspect of who they are. Some people even hate what they do for a living and consider it a mere necessity that pays the bills. So, what then?
When we meet someone new, isn't asking "oh, what do you do??" just as arbitrary as saying something like, "oh, I like raisins, what about you"?? Do you think people really want to know what a person does for a living, is it just cordial, do we use it to judge what kind of person they probably are, are we just robots of macro social etiquette ideals??
2007-04-11
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