Psychology - December 2007

my bad habit is that i go shopping everyweek.. and i buy lots of clothes.. once i get home..i feel like they are ugly. so i just through them .... and some i wear
and some i don't....
also if i see somethin cute in such a store ... i go and buy it....
thus i am losin lots of money
sometimes i buy a shirt and i never wear .. it just sits there in my closet...
plz help me ... wut can i do to stop this bad habit.....
by the way i iv never went to mall with out buyin a thing

plz help

2007-12-15 12:00:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Cold

As I stand, it rolls down my cheek
My face crumples, my body weak
Her existance, her life completely banished
Her being ,has now vanished

As I laid her down to sleep
I thought she may have heard me weep
But the sleep of which into she falls
Is her final sleep of all

Her head is rested, her body frail
I feel my body need to wail
She left so soon, no fair well
I feel that I may rot in hell

Not your fault, no guilt for you
They would point the finger, if they knew
These things happen, its just fate
If they only knew, but it's too late

She cried so much,she screamed and screamed
Not the baby I expected, the one that beamed
The giggling baby, the one that was a joy to see
But all she did was cry and whimper at me

I had to do it, I'm sorry, I am
I didn't mean to push that pram
The sound, the impact, all too new
I'm sorry, I'm really sorry, I really didn't mean to do this to you.

2007-12-15 11:41:04 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3

Has anyone ever told you what you are and you believed them for so long but then finally realized they are mental terrorists and it was all a convincing lie? Because this is my own mind I'm talking about here, it's not just that they got someone else to believe a lie about me it's that I believed them about me. Has this ever happened to you?

2007-12-15 11:33:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

fell pretty isolated from my friends no-one to confide in what i do?

2007-12-15 11:24:59 · 1 answers · asked by try e 1

i do my best..............lol

2007-12-15 10:44:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

... the person closest to the deceased) and do you think that that makes it so much harder for that person and extends their grieving period?

2007-12-15 10:11:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 10:05:52 · 4 answers · asked by lolo 1

2007-12-15 10:04:13 · 8 answers · asked by lolo 1

A guy who is also a member of my writing group stared at me the entire time during the first meeting that I joined. Since then, a year ago, he continues to stare and make eye contact. He always smiles when I do and he is a guaranteed laugher when I crack jokes. Occasionally we waits for me after class to ask me a question about my writing (usually work related), but when I approach him to talk he runs from me. Why?
Figuring I did or said something wrong, I let it go and try to carry one without acknowledging him, but then he does something to get my attention. He still stares and still wants to talk when he approaches me. Occasionally I bring an activity to do when we have a party and he always joins in or if no one else is interested, he is.
He is one of those kinda situations that if he were interested in me, I would enjoy dating him and if not, I am also fine with not dating him, What bothers me is that he puts me in situations that make me feel rejected by him and I do not understand why. I am not the kind of person to hurt other people’s feelings, yet he keeps setting me up to be rejected by him. WHY? Is he some kind of nut that gets off on hurting (specifically) me?
When I ignore him, he pursues me aggressively, then when I try to talk to him usually to be polite, he runs (we are both adult individuals)!
What can I do to get him to stop this behavior and either talk to me as a friend, or stop pursuing and staring at me in class?

2007-12-15 09:53:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

at this time of year everyone is portrayed as being happy and enjoying the festivities- families together- partners, man and woman together - boy and girl, lots of money, expensive house holds, expensive presents etc. warm homes.

but what does a person like me do ?

who lives alone in a one bedroom flat on sickness benifits...no posessions except a computer...no carpets on floor.

i suffer with borderline personality disorder, ive had a miserable life, sexual abuse, bullying,..never made any friends....never had a partner....never been employed....ive physically aged in the face....im bald...have physical imperfections....torn ankle ligaments....im overweight have 2 missing teeth.
i have no one to turn to except a mum who is ill and aging...but whos done her best to be there for me.

what about my hopes and dreams...i feel forgotten about...bitter and resentfull of the happiness i see everywhere around me, it reinforces my loneliness & isolation.

2007-12-15 09:52:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 09:43:51 · 3 answers · asked by VAndors Excelsior™ (Jeeti Johal Bhuller)™ 7

I'm sick of my mom emotionally and physically abusing me (hitting shoving when i dissagree with her or "smart talk" her) and tonight was my breaking point. I can't deal with it anymore. It was the scariest moment of my life after she left the house I sat down in my room and had a panic attack i couldn't breath because i knew (know) that if i don't get out im going to kill myself. And this is not me being melo dramatic. i really am. please help me.

2007-12-15 09:40:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 09:35:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 16 and so is she.
On to what happened...

The other night, while she was at work, a coworker was texting her asking her somewhat personal questions (would you date me, do you like me, ec). She responded in saying that she already had a boyfriend (me), and no. Later that night he invited her over to watch a movie and hangout. He is 18. She said sure.
After about 15 minutes of the movie, she said that she had to use the restroom. He said ok. When she got out of the bathroom, He was lying naked on his bed, and invited her to have sex. She said no, and that she loved her boyfriend. He then said "well I am gonna get something outta this". She ran for the door. He caught up to her and threw her on the bed. She was screaming for dear life. Wielding a knife he told her to shut it. As he tried to take off her jacket the neighbors came and asked what was wrong. Wearing only a sheet he said that they were just arguing. They took her over to their house. The guy came over and took her home

2007-12-15 09:11:32 · 10 answers · asked by George 1

Someone in my school jumped off a bridge, committed suicide. I never knew him but I saw him everyday, we did the same sport only different sections. The school is torn apart and so am I. I'm looking for some healthy ways to cope with this, it's really hitting me hard. Thank you, god bless, R.I.P.

2007-12-15 08:39:05 · 14 answers · asked by flirtylilactress 1

they can't stop talking or writing about it. does anybody agree that although they *think* people care, everybody really does not???

2007-12-15 08:21:25 · 10 answers · asked by ~ 1

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2007-12-15 08:13:59 · 16 answers · asked by cucumis_sativus 5

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2007-12-15 08:13:30 · 11 answers · asked by cucumis_sativus 5

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2007-12-15 08:13:03 · 12 answers · asked by cucumis_sativus 5

DON'T YOU GUESS YOU ARE GOING TO BE NEXT?

2007-12-15 07:39:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

here is some more explanation about my question..I have been a relationship with a guy ( my current partner ) for about two years. We do have a great matual respectful/love relationship with eachother..we are not only partner but best friends as well and all things that should matter in a real relationship we do have them the best. BUT the only problem is, he is porn addicted and masterubte alot, when Im not around. I know that nobody is perfect and he has already honestly told me that, that how he suffers from it, and how it makes him feel bad after doing that so sincere.. we talked I tried to help him and did all I could do..I tried to bring more fun companis in our relationship..to be more sexier and even the way whores wear or things like that or do but still everything is the same..it hurts my feelings b/c I know he is not doing it on porpuse but still DOES. Just need some advice to know how to help him to quit this terrible habit.

2007-12-15 07:22:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

The words go 'You can cut me open and I keep bleeding, I Keep keep bleeding loveKeep bleeding love'. Is it because if you love someone with your heart you cannot do without him or her? And doesn't this extend to the family situation. Your parents bring you up and you depend on them wholeheartedly to a greater or lesser extent all your life. So is the song trying to say that love is entwined with hate?

2007-12-15 06:03:32 · 9 answers · asked by Twister 1

I'm starting to get some of the symptoms my dad had every time he went into a manic episode.

- Extreme anger
- Lack of remorse
- Apathy
- Intensity
- Plotting to kill people
- Doing stuff in public like turning around and putting my finger out to drivers who would piss me off who wouldn't let my though
- Extreme charisma
- Shouting at people in public for no reason etc...

Ever since I was born my dad has had manic episodes at differenced years throughout my life. He would be a normal guy for the next year or two, and the episodes would only occur in the summer, when my family would go on holiday to some other country and once the episode kicked off the only thing we would think about would be trying to get out of there and get away. So every couple of summers, the episode would kick off, my dad would turn into the Jack Nicholson character from the shinning for 3 months. A lot of doors were smashed down. I think I'm turning into my dad. For some reason the stupid doctors haven’t diagnosed me with anything – What disorder do I have. What do I do?

2007-12-15 05:45:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime something loud goes off,I jump really bad. It just surprises me. It isn't fear though. How do I get rid of this? Sometimes I am afraid that people think I do it for attention, but I don't!

2007-12-15 05:29:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I deserve to be loved. I know I'm a good enough person. And people tell me they love me, they show it. I have no reason to doubt it. Why is that I still go to bed every night thinking that tomorrow could be the day they say "I was kidding about that." or "I changed my mind." Is this natural?

2007-12-15 05:13:21 · 13 answers · asked by The Babe is Armed! 6

2007-12-15 05:09:57 · 9 answers · asked by Angel 2

What is the best way to overcome shyness?

2007-12-15 04:34:26 · 3 answers · asked by Straightforward 4

2007-12-15 04:29:46 · 4 answers · asked by lee f 5

The grouth of the scientific advancement will definitely lead to that point....... I think Are you agree me...?

2007-12-15 04:28:30 · 6 answers · asked by thillairosepadman 1

2007-12-15 03:45:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous