I'm sick of my mom emotionally and physically abusing me (hitting shoving when i dissagree with her or "smart talk" her) and tonight was my breaking point. I can't deal with it anymore. It was the scariest moment of my life after she left the house I sat down in my room and had a panic attack i couldn't breath because i knew (know) that if i don't get out im going to kill myself. And this is not me being melo dramatic. i really am. please help me.
2007-12-15 09:40:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Domestic abuse,call the cops.
2007-12-15 09:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Molly 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't you think that killing yourself is the easiest way out? Do you have some family member you can stay by or A close Friend? If she's abusing you turn her in but make sure you have a place to go. So you will be safe. I have panic attacks all the time but I am probably a lot older than you, killing yourself is not an option don't even think like that. If you need to talk to someone I can talk to you my email address is carla.clements@yahoo.com. I have a 16yr old daughter and I don't think she has ever thought about that her and I are real close. But don't do anything stupid think about it.
2007-12-15 17:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by answer machine 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First thing is first, do not listen to the answerer who said "don't be hasty with moving out." If your mom is hitting you, it qualifies as child abuse and/or assault on a minor. Go to a friend's house and tell your friend's parents about the attacks. That way you have a secondary witness to the events.
If you have bruises take pictures of them and if there is blood, do not shower or wash until a law enforcement officer has inspected you and reported the incident.
Once at your friends call the police and report the events. If you have substantial evidence against your mother, you should have problem pursuing prosecution, and possibly emancipation.
2007-12-15 18:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First things first, don't be hasty with the moving out.
If you need to, pack some things so you can leave in a hurry if you need to. This should make you feel a little safer.
You really need to speak to a counsellor, if you're still at school, speak to the counsellor there and tell them in the strictest confidence.
Once you've opened up and gotten some professional advice, you may need to speak to a doctor because you sound as if you have quite advanced depression or anxiety.
Your problems with your mother are obviously severe but running will only make things worse if you have to come back.
Organise an emergency escape plan with a friend, and if possible, their parents, and explain your situation.
2007-12-15 17:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by jonnyAtheatus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hun Get help please i know your thinking this girl don't no what she's talking about but i do Ive been in your position and still am. suicide is never the answer. As for your mother if you haven't already told someone tell SOMEONE! A Teacher A Neighbor Police anybody or see if you can stay with a safe relative or friend. You Need to get help as soon as possible. and no the world would not be a better place without you because i know that's what your thinking. god put us all on this earth for reason he knows the right time for our death. If we bring our death upon our own time we are obeying the devil's wishes and will most up end in hell. you don't want that do you?. Hun Just Please think this over really good. i know i don't no you at all but i don't want to loose you. You will stay in my heart.
2007-12-15 17:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Little darling, mothers are sometimes under a lot of pressure. we place immense strain over and above other issues foremost in their minds. Take this into consideration. You feel angry at her, and lash out, she is angered because you appear to have no consideration for her feelings. When you anger, go to your room, and take ten deep breaths. try to occupy yourself with something to distract yourself from the situation. If you can call a friend, a mutual associate, or failing that the samaritans. You are both obviously in pain, and under undue stress at this very emotional time of the year. Be kind to one another. If youcant, then place a distance between yourselves until you have regained you composure and peace of mind. More suicides, breakdowns, and divorces occur at this time of year than any other. Be calm. Call and talk to someone.
2007-12-15 17:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by VAndors Excelsior™ (Jeeti Johal Bhuller)™ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
from the heart: GET OUT OF THE HOUSE!! if she is abusing you call the police, you may love her but she knows what shes doing, and she knows shes hurting you and thats not right, and PLEASE, PLEASE dont kill youself. Your life is precious and a lot of people including me love you. My heart really goes out to you. Also get some help. God loves you! Dont waste your life because (dont take this personally) of your psychotic mom!!!
2007-12-15 17:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try going to a friends house or another family members house. Please do not kill ur self. U will hurt many others. Please find a way to talk to her. Talk to a counselor or another adult to help u get through this. Good luck. Email me with if u need for advise
2007-12-15 17:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by jessicas127 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...dont disagree...and dont smart talk...she obviously going through a crisis herself...it will blow over...just keep yourself out her way...if there is something happening in her life she needs you to be there...growing up is hard...
2007-12-15 17:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by Wee Hen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋