Psychology - December 2007

suicide? do people go to hell, no matter what?

2007-12-20 04:32:35 · 18 answers · asked by ilovemessages 7

I need to set up an appointment to talk to somebody about practical dating and social skills advice. I want somebody licensed and experienced, ideally who will take psychological health insurance, but I don't know the first thing about finding a good one and not just somebody who will take my money. How do you do it?

2007-12-20 04:23:34 · 4 answers · asked by George Lass 1

My girlfriend is deadly afraid of the movie character "Chucky". She watched the movie when she was 7 or 8 years old and now over 10 years later she is still scared of chucky and sometimes dolls too. She runs and cries and hyperventilates at the sight of anything similar to that. I was wondering if there is anyway we could break her fear of this because it is all fake. She said maybe watching the movie would help her fears but i don't want to push her into doing anything she doesn't want to do. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

2007-12-20 03:57:57 · 8 answers · asked by WyteRyno 1

my life has always been like existing in black hole...cold and alone....isolated.

the few contacts ive made through this site that i added to yahoo messenger, except one very nice lady...a good friend - have all deserted me and dont contact me anymore.

most of them for statistic purpouses were white american females.

its like they've been influenced to not talk or contact me anymore..

grrrrrrrrrrrrr !!

i feel so angry and bitter....never having experienced any happiness or fullfillment in my life....only pain and misery, rejection, sexual abuse, bullying, victimization.

im clenching my teeth everyday im so annoyed....i wish i would of battered the bullys heads in with a wooden fence post instead of letting them bully me.

i have BPD, have made no friends in life, never been in a relationship ever..im 30 years old.

all i see around me is happy, grinning people...grinning yahoo avatars with them cartoon broad grins....i see things that ive never had mirrored back at me DAILY !

2007-12-20 03:44:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-20 03:21:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What causes a person to have emotional detachment issues? My boyfriend has no interest in having an emotional connection with me and I've been nothing but good to him, so it's not like he has a reason to be this way. He is like a robot and I'm starting to believe that he doesn't have a soul or a conscience. He doesn't seem to have feelings like normal people do, at least towards me.

His parents seem like nice, normal people and he grew up with 2 sisters (no brothers), so I can't understand why he is the way he is.

I should note that he seems to have emotional closeness with his family and friends, just not with me. I don't understand. It's so easy to put the blame on myself, like I must not be good enough...but in reality, I know it's his problem.

What causes this and what can I do? I've tried to talk to him about it but he tells me he doesn't know what I'm talking about and that I've got a messed up perception of reality. Any advice appreciated. Thanks.

2007-12-20 02:30:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-20 02:16:06 · 7 answers · asked by core helps 3

i can find psychologists or regular doctors opinions on teen plastic surgery? i am doing a speech for school.. i am against teen plastic surgery...... yeah so any websites etc.

2007-12-20 02:15:18 · 2 answers · asked by Kieri Baby 2

2007-12-20 02:08:08 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6

This time of year can be rough. Just thought some of you might like to get some things off your chest and vent!

2007-12-20 02:05:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

with you, but you dont no who they are or whos doing it ?

i ask this because im a borderline personality disorderer sufferer....i live a lonely isolated life....in a small one bedroomed flat on sickness benifit..i own no posessions except an old computer...i have no carpets on my floor even.

i can get very paranoid which i accept.

through this site, i made quite a few contacts and added them to my yahoo messenger.....but all of a sudden and for a while now....theyve stopped contacting me...iming me on yahoo messenger....and even stopped answering my questions.

im worried theyve been influenced not to contact me anymore or not to get involved with me..by conspirators unknown to me..

i swear on the almighty i feel so enraged about this possibility that i want to find whos responsible, and deal with them severley..
ive been rejected all my life and never been in any relationships because of my disorder.

so the notion that people who i make contact with on here are being influenced

2007-12-20 02:05:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-20 02:03:51 · 33 answers · asked by Rita 6

being a person living on earth

2007-12-20 01:44:54 · 13 answers · asked by jane 1

2007-12-20 01:26:39 · 2 answers · asked by Gowtham H 2

2007-12-20 00:48:26 · 15 answers · asked by That Girl 4

their words lead to, in the listeer's mind & self-esteem? Or is this a habit they formed growing up, out of the need for self-defense? Depending on that answer....how do we deal with the people who don't accept this in themseleves and honestly seek help?

2007-12-20 00:46:17 · 21 answers · asked by lookin4ansrs 1

I am a good looking female, I'm very shy and I don't smile much. These 3 things have really screwed up peoples perception of me.

I don't smile much, not because I'm miserable or anything.... But its mostly due to nerves. I feel uncomfortable around new people, I'm still not really sure why. But this makes me come off like I'm very stuck on myself and unfriendly which is actually far from the truth once you get to know me. I feel so rude, because sometimes people will actually look right at me and smile and I just stare and them because I'm too nervous to smile back. I know it sounds very strange, but it actually happens.

How can I fix this problem? Has anyone else experienced the same kind of thing? I used to have a lot of friends, and I was extremely confident in social situations and it just flowed through me. But now I'm having to work my way to get back up there. Any advice would be helpful, thank you :)

2007-12-20 00:00:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-19 21:27:16 · 5 answers · asked by thalathamarai 1

Younger generation, we notice two kinds of groups, one who is serious about their studies and the other one carefree ones.
The proportion of the careless youngsters is rising!!
and that is harmful for the future society. students in colleges are engaged in partying, smoking away their lives.
How can we hope for a healthy next generation....
What can we the elder generation, parents do about it? How can we control them without sounding bossy?

2007-12-19 21:05:04 · 13 answers · asked by asha v 2

If any things goes wrong or if i feel something is going against me, I usually try to discuss with one or two colleagues and still if i feel thhat things are not in my way i simply quit, but how correct it is to do so? Please suggest

2007-12-19 19:31:35 · 3 answers · asked by Rekha 1

2007-12-19 19:13:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please! Answer me!

2007-12-19 18:42:03 · 8 answers · asked by Traveller 2

2007-12-19 18:36:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-19 18:31:51 · 10 answers · asked by CHAITU 1

I mean..

Why do we expect them to know exactly how we feel, what exactly we want and things like that ??

2007-12-19 18:24:45 · 26 answers · asked by Brilliant Queen (BQ)_forever !!! 5

the last few years have been really strong self discovery period. i was filled with ideas and inspirations. i like to write, and my head was sooo crammed with ideas i couldn't get it all down fast enough. now things are balancing out. i've ahcieved and had sucess in most of the areas i worked on....so now what? i'm idea-less. i have nothing inspiaring to think about...feeling kinda bored at the moment. what can i do to challenge my brain....my interests are mainy in: art, humanity, philosiphy, social science, spirituality(i'm not religious), music. thats all i can think of right now.

2007-12-19 18:04:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been going out for almost a year now and I have told him that I love him, but he said that he was scared to tell me "those words" I stoped saying it so he can feel like he "was ready" but I told him again and he just shows it to me but can not tell me, im am wondering if i am just wasting my time or will he ever love me because I am sick of waiting. What do I do he is 31 years old and I feel that he should no if he loves me or not by now... right? should i just keep waiting or move on ...?

2007-12-19 17:57:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Both for me, but probably lean more towards metaphor percentage wise...Anyone else??

2007-12-19 17:54:39 · 9 answers · asked by SophiaSeeker 5

Sometimes when i am free or even walking i suddenly faint and I see some future scenes.
eg: i was turning off my tv and suddenly i faint n i saw that my uncle is in hospital and some people around him are crying.Then after three days my uncle was dead in hospital and my family members were crying.
I usually see only deaths and some troubles that r coming to my family.But i dunt know wat to do?
Plaese help im really serious.........

2007-12-19 17:43:53 · 7 answers · asked by azamshaikh007 1

I would like to hear experiences from you please tell me how you have used the law of attraction and what results do you get? I want to know how to use this LAW.. since I have seen the secret the movie.. I am excited about it, but I dont understand many things.. sometimes I think it's fake e.g the money. the rich people kept in secret this law for keeping the people in poverty, so the people from africa dont know the law that's the reason they are suffering then? why is there so much pain then? because we dont know how to use this LAW?

2007-12-19 16:55:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous