with you, but you dont no who they are or whos doing it ?
i ask this because im a borderline personality disorderer sufferer....i live a lonely isolated life....in a small one bedroomed flat on sickness benifit..i own no posessions except an old computer...i have no carpets on my floor even.
i can get very paranoid which i accept.
through this site, i made quite a few contacts and added them to my yahoo messenger.....but all of a sudden and for a while now....theyve stopped contacting me...iming me on yahoo messenger....and even stopped answering my questions.
im worried theyve been influenced not to contact me anymore or not to get involved with me..by conspirators unknown to me..
i swear on the almighty i feel so enraged about this possibility that i want to find whos responsible, and deal with them severley..
ive been rejected all my life and never been in any relationships because of my disorder.
so the notion that people who i make contact with on here are being influenced
2007-12-20 02:05:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
against me or told not to contact me is driving me mad..
i want to find those responsible.
it hurts me that im not contacted anymore by friends i thought id made.
what do i do?
2007-12-20 02:05:38 · update #1
People cannot be influenced by anyone on here. IMs are strictly private, no one but you and the sender sees them others are not aware of them. Its a sad fact that sometimes people will befriend you on here then just as quickly drop you, it happens to lots of people so I wouldn't let it bother you too much.
Sorry to hear you are so isolated, do you have a social worker or a care manager? if so ask them about any local groups you could join or centres you could attend. Also check you are getting all benefits and assistance you are entitled to. There are charitable agencies like the "Salvation Army" which will help with furniture etc. for your home. Speak to your GP about your medication, it may need changing, or your condition re-assessed.
It's good that you are open about your condition, there are lots of people out there who can help, you just need to ask.
I hope things get better for you soon, but please seek help.
2007-12-20 06:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by Willow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your sense of rejection is a part of the paranoia. Surely there must be a way of your getting outside and having real face-to-face contact with others. I know many people with personality disorders and, in fact, I am not wrapped too tight myself sometimes. Be sure you take your meds regularly. And try small steps. Say hello and thank you to people behind the counter when you make small purchases. Make eye contact, even if just for a moment. Little things like that can make you feel much more connected to the world.
2007-12-20 02:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am unsure how to put this, I want it to come across in the nicest way, but do you maybe think that it is your condition that is making you think like this??
This is a very busy time of year for people, I would try and not to take it so hard for your own sake.
I hope they get back in contact with you and for you to overcome your issues and live a happy and content life.... ;0)
2007-12-20 02:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are aware its Christmas season and everyone is probably far too busy to be merely sitting around chatting on yahoo messenger ?
That or you have scared them away by acting so paranoid.
2007-12-20 02:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People do this to me all of the time . They talk with me for a while and suddenly stop talking to me when I start talking about my self. People are very selfish, they think some people are to be used as a garbage can for all of their chat but when it is the other persons turn ,they do not want to listen. A true friend is a good listener and a good talker. It is not you , it is them . They have a selfish problem It ;s not about you.
2007-12-20 02:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The Bible recognises the existence of the Canaanite god Ba'al in distinctive places. in certainty that Christian monotheism originated in the deserts of Egypt which replaced into before Polytheist. hence the early followers have been on very close preserve for the previous impacts. In later situations the Egyptian suggestions have been tempered with the suggestions of Zoroastrianism with its bi-polar precise/incorrect mentality which maintains to be the lynchpin of Christian morality to at present. until eventually now that it replaced into straight forward obedience hence Commandments, Deuteronomy etc.
2016-10-02 04:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by arruda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the holiday season... they are probably swamped in their real life! Chalk this up as paranoia as a part of your disorder, talk to your counselor and do whatever it is you need to do to clear your mind (normally I would say take a walk... but I don't know the extent of your condition).
2007-12-20 02:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by pip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no conspiracy, people nowadays can only concentrate for so long and become bored easily. Don't ake it personally. Also, you mention the Almighty, ask for some help there.
2007-12-20 02:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ellis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk about being busy. My aunt passed away last Friday. She jumped onto the train rail.
2007-12-20 02:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by ✿Houston_Girl✿ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa - hold on. There is no conspiracy here - its your paranoia kicking in. People are just busy this time of year.
2007-12-20 02:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋