Psychology - November 2007

I have this mean awful person at work who has spread lies about me, used my hardworking and related it to herself, used and abused my kindness to do stuff for her,spread rumors in the office that am hated by everyone..and tried to destroy my picture infront of my boss.

this person now has been transferred to another section, but her boss has been kicked,so am afraid they will bring her down again, I cant stand her, if i hear her voice I feel like throwing up,I actually hate her to a degree that sometimes my legs go numb and I become physically sick.
I need serious help.

2007-11-10 17:51:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am writing a paper on how stress can worsen cancer while a positive attitude can help. I need 3 strong points for that. the prompt is:

does mental attitude affect cancer?

can you guys help me? cause i'm stuck.

even one topic would be okay but i would like three!

:)

2007-11-10 17:04:26 · 6 answers · asked by Musiclovr08 2

I am personally secure in myself and therefor find it only mildly irritating How does it make you feel?

2007-11-10 16:33:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I am addicted to Coke and Diet Coke. I stick to the diet but still. I can do with out coffee and other soda but I NEED my coke.

2007-11-10 16:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i look at the ceiling and the paint just keeps moving around for some reason and it looks like there is a layer of fog on the ceiling... and my dogs fur is like almost glowing... why is this?

2007-11-10 15:56:32 · 7 answers · asked by this is my avatar 4

Clothes. people were the ugliest things ans then you ask them about it and they don't even like it. why even bother?

2007-11-10 15:55:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the past 3 years I haven't been able to let anyone see me eating... This is a huge problem when it comes to eating in cafeterias. Is this a psychological problem? what's wrong with me?

2007-11-10 15:25:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend said it is sweet for a guy to cry for a girl .others think that crying is a sign of vulnerability and weaknesses men should be strong what do you think? sensitive or sissy?

2007-11-10 15:22:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

work I thought I could trust. On leaving for lunch, I realised almost immediately I had forgotten my keys, and caught this woman telling my boss who is a bit of a snob anyway. In that split moment their faces told the story!! Later, I told my boss anyway as I had intended, and she said well I hope you are well or something like that. Question now!!!! Do I approach the gossiper, or as I love my job, accept the fact they WILL ALL really enjoy this, because I DO NOT JOIN IN ANY GOSSIP, but have heard plenty of it. I am popular with the public in my job and do it better than some and I work hard, so should I just maintain my dignity and decorum or what. I would love them to know that I heard them gossiping especially the one who broke my confidential problem to my boss. I am too worrried about my boyfriend to deal with them, but should I tackle that girl about it. He is seriously ill now and if it was me I would be supporting a colleague as much as I could not gossip. Do you agree?

2007-11-10 14:50:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-10 14:30:52 · 3 answers · asked by Lord of Chaos 4

I still see myself as different, and unloved. I'm not depressed, I'm rather baffled.

Don't get me wrong, I have friends. Some of whom I'm close to... but I still feel really alone.

Why would I ask this!? No idea... perhaps you have some insight?

2007-11-10 14:16:37 · 15 answers · asked by sarciness 3

If they like or do something different from what the person does or believes. If it dosent hurt anyone, what gives the other person the right to be 'critical' of them and tell them to do it thier way and if not they will critisize them?

2007-11-10 13:30:31 · 6 answers · asked by jr 2

For those that are known to be confident and brush off negativity...how do you do it? Like in your head, how the hell you let those thoughts just disappear? And keep on smilin'? I need to know your secret :)

2007-11-10 13:17:25 · 14 answers · asked by lachefderouge 3

2007-11-10 12:55:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who would have the upper hand?

2007-11-10 12:51:34 · 12 answers · asked by *I'm the Best...I Deed It!* 6

Like you think differently from everyone else.

I'd rather spend a night trying to find part of myself than getting wasted at some houseparty. I don't care about who's dating who or how everyone else percieves me.

2007-11-10 12:47:09 · 6 answers · asked by <3 2

As time has gone by, it is very apparent that the American dream has changed. The meaning of this dream is different to everyone, but as a society, we have changed our vision to revolve around wealth and materialistic goods. The American dream should really be about working hard to get where you want to be in life and not letting materialistic things get in the way of a true goal. What ever your American Dream is, remember that only you can make it come true.

2007-11-10 12:46:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-10 12:45:34 · 3 answers · asked by antec 2

2007-11-10 12:40:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-10 11:36:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-10 11:30:12 · 1 answers · asked by Marcus P 1

how about just by looking at their writing

2007-11-10 11:25:30 · 3 answers · asked by Draper 3

im a daydreamer. i figured that the only thing i can do to get away from this cruel wicked world. but the thing i cant stop when its time to go to sleep somethin will just pop in my head and i will start daydreaming...how can i stop?

2007-11-10 11:20:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Various social outings never work even while being extroverted. The people I try to talk to always end up flaky so a social life isn't for me. How can I rid of lonely feelings and just focus on studying?

2007-11-10 11:16:30 · 4 answers · asked by asahiippo 2

2007-11-10 11:07:28 · 7 answers · asked by gigi.dire 1

2007-11-10 11:06:07 · 11 answers · asked by ..lilbeatch 6

Intelligence changes in definition from person to person. Our life experiences shape how we think and define things. Furthermore, it also depends on the context. For instance, some of the things we do in our culture is considered stupid by someone who grew up in a different culture. How can I not be hurt when someone thinks that I am stupid. That one person I care about. They appear to be intelligent because they have more knowledge than me, meaning a more powerful memory. i don't have a great memory, but I can always work on it. How else can I defend myself? To me, intelligence is using what natural abilities you have in a useful, creative way. Intelligence is when you can make a person go WOW!!! Intelligence is hard work and using words to make people stop and question themselves and society.

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My boss thought that I was very unintelligent. In that specific situation I was because I was too AFRAID to

2007-11-10 11:04:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-10 11:00:46 · 11 answers · asked by lorma 2

There is a girl who is 10 years old and probably she is a victim of incest or violence. She lives with her father. The parents are divorced and the mother is living in another city.

She denies to tell that her father abuses her. I know it. Because she behaves really strange and sometimes her reactions for usual things are so extreme.

A couple days ago I wanted to hold her hair. She yelled at me like "Don't touch me!" and then she apologized for her strange manner. She also really hates her father but denies to tell me the reason. She always says "He may go to the hell!" or something similar to this. She also said that her father told the girl that he loves her very much since she resembles her mother.

As a matter of fact I want to do something for her but I don't want to force her. How can I make her tell me the truth. Maybe I can do something for her and help her get rid of this father. But since she denies to talk, I can't do anything and I don't want to break her heart. Of course I'm not so sure about those. But I want to be sure then do something.

I know this is something too serious for me to handle alone but I need some suggestions about this issue. What do you think I should do?

2007-11-10 10:49:54 · 7 answers · asked by C. is taking a break! 5

I dont feel like getting out of bed in the morning and when I do I am tired most of the day. I feel like people are criticizing me all the time. And I just sit at home and never go to friends. I sometimes feel like a failure and just want to stop everything and take a break. I feel stressed all the time.

2007-11-10 10:49:14 · 7 answers · asked by carguy 2