Different and unloved?

Question

I still see myself as different, and unloved. I'm not depressed, I'm rather baffled.

Don't get me wrong, I have friends. Some of whom I'm close to... but I still feel really alone.

Why would I ask this!? No idea... perhaps you have some insight?

Answer 1

maybe because you are alone.

Answer 2

When you say that you still see yourself as different and unloved it makes me wonder if you have truly ever accepted yourself for who you are and the fact that we are all different. I know what you mean about feeling alone, I have had this experience in a room full of people.Are you baffled because you feel people don't understand you ? I have felt this way as well and have spent most of my life alone(literally) It has made me wonder what is wrong with me at times and has caused me to withdraw from any thing more than having to go to work. I guess I have just finally learned to live with it. I am sorry for you and I do understand. Hugs to you.

Answer 3

I am the most alone person. Born that way and have always been. I see life from a different set of eyes. Everyone that really knows me, knows it is so. Since I have grown to know who I really am and changed over the last 3 years, I don't mind it anymore. I know I am loved by Jesus. I don't need someone else to prop up my ego anymore. It doesn't exist. I am what I am and I am not that bad. Besides, I have a really cool cat and a jackass 19 year old kid who lives with me with one of his friends when on hard times. A big bear hug to you.

Answer 4

Maybe you are just different and have higher standards that most.... Unfortunately it is a cross you will bear alone but you will stand out, which is good but get used to the 'fence sitters' who won't like you..... I'd rather be different and alone than a sheep.... Believe in yourself and be amongst the rare few, who will stand up and be counted... :)

Answer 5

you r not alone some how i am in the same boat as well people use me take what ever they want and don t show up till they don t need me again some times i feel im alone and un wanted then i start helping people just to c a big smile on their face

Answer 6

You need to put a big smile om your face and remember its just you thinking those thoughts,i m sure your family and close friends love you and that's a start you need to learn who you are a wonderful ,caring and loving person.You say you are not depressed but i think you may be.God loves all of his children and you are a child of God.So put a smile on your face and some pep in your step and know you are loved.

Answer 7

u may be different but u would stay unloved till the day u learn to fall in never ending love with yourself

Answer 8

I think I get where you are coming from. It is just the way some of us are - we are not your standard type, who I used to despise but now envy. I am sociable - but still alone. I hate it - but can't change. I don't know what to do about this. Some of us are just like this.

Answer 9

How old are you? I used to feel like you, but in recent years I feel loved and accepted. I believe you are probably more sensitive and deeper than your peers and they don't really understand you. But eventually you will find people who will. Some people find it harder but when companionship and love comes, it means so much more. Good luck to you.

Answer 10

It's just a state of mind, not the truth.

Reinforcement of positive thoughts on a daily basis could help with that.

Answer 11

who will never be alone as longest you have yourself look around there is allways somebody who would love to talk to you or spent time with a humanbeen