Psychology - July 2007

2007-07-08 04:05:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't believe in suicide. That's a wrong thing to do, mostly to family. Sometimes I am walking across a parking lot and wish the car wouldn't stop. I wish it would just run right into me. I don't think people would really miss me all that much. None of my old friends talk to me anymore. Everyone frankly appears to hate me. I feel like I am losing myself to food, and I can't escape it. I have never had a girlfriend. I grew up bullied.

I have never cut myself, or done any harm like that. And I don't plan on ever doing so. But I have made myself throw up before. The only people that seem to really smile at me are infants and young children. I say hi back, but I wonder why the hell they would smile and say hi to such a loser. And I work at worst place on earth. Walmart. And I can not escape it. I have tried to leave 3 or 4 times now, but each time I fail and end up staying. And being there only makes me feel worse.

Does anyone know how to help me get a lil happier?

2007-07-08 04:03:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, at the moment things are rough in my life,i wanted to know how i can still keep my head up and on my shoulders

2007-07-08 03:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by liwaka 2

your own mortality, to be more precise.

2007-07-08 02:10:59 · 23 answers · asked by Mr Dog 2

2007-07-08 01:17:15 · 29 answers · asked by I dont know 4

I can control myself only when I am fasting, in other days I am like a crazy! If I eat I eat a lot, if I write e-mails I write a lot, if I sit on line I can't stop... The same is with almost everything. What's wrong with me? How can I start finaly controlling what I am doing? I seem to behave totaly spontaneous, I do what I feel and want!
Thank you all,
Maria

2007-07-08 01:06:46 · 5 answers · asked by Maria 2

Ok, I have always been confident about my age... I look younger than most of my friends, I hang out with 20-something people... I am happily married. Until now. I am a week from my big 3-0. I am close to panic. No big career (just a job), no kids, and feeling soooo not ready for an adulthood!!!!!!!! Should I change my life rapidly (change a job, get a science degree or start my own business--- inject hormones---- get fat and then pregnant if I am lucky)---i.e. achieve goals of so-called "real life" ------or maybe I am still too immature for that and should wait another 2-3-5-10 years to get a grown-up life? What if I'll never be ready? Share your own experience of a midlife crisis at 30..everyone... please! Especially women...How do/did you deal with it?

2007-07-07 23:43:12 · 7 answers · asked by nice2meetya 2

his mother and aunt were engaged in a hot discussion and forgot about the baby who was trying to get some attention. so realising that nothing worked, the baby went to the garage and hid behind the car. 15mn later, the mother and the aunt noticed that the baby had disappeared ; they started to search in the rooms inside the house, calling his name then went to the garden; didn't find him; went to the garage and called his name; still nothing. they were going to search outside the house but the mother decided to double check in the garage and searched under the car, she found him sitting behind the car. when he saw his mother, tears fell from his eyes without crying, kept silent and followed her inside the house.

what kind of baby is this ?

2007-07-07 23:34:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you mean by:

Aspects of color in life

2007-07-07 23:34:08 · 3 answers · asked by klaus baudelaire 2

and you or others feel there's a change in yourself....personality etc.

2007-07-07 23:16:34 · 4 answers · asked by curiouscarp88 3

I contacted someone from the past a while ago who indicated he didn't want a present relationship with me, yet my friend said he was just playing hard to get. She continues to push me to contact him again - she won't quit and insists that her version of events is the correct one, not mine. She is very insistent in all she does - there is no arguing with her. We are both in jobs that require us to insist on our own way, but still, I wonder why she is pushing me on this situation, when I was there - she wasn't. I have refused to respond to her e-mails on the situation or I have simply changed the subject and responded in an indirect way, and she calls me on it and asks why I didn't respond on point to the question of the relationship. Why is she like this - has anyone ever had a friend - who is otherwise very understanding and kind - act like this?

2007-07-07 23:15:35 · 4 answers · asked by sweetpea 2

2007-07-07 22:56:30 · 8 answers · asked by Marmeladealorangesanguine 3

at the hands of others throughout your life, how does your faith in humanity get restored?
how do you find love and light, and learn to love again? when all that your lifes circumstances have left you with is hate and great anger and rage, when in the first place you didnt wanna be that way, you didnt want things to finish up the way they have.
its almost you could say, people have implanted that hate, anger, rage inside you, because of the prolonged trauma and victimization youve had done to you at the hands of others.

so what im saying is, how do you find your way back to love and light and humanity once more? is it possible or are you permenantly screwed?

i do respect religious answers, iam religious myself, iam christian, but i would prefer answers coming from your heart, from you yourself, and cast religion just to the side for this specific question.

2007-07-07 22:12:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

you know its bad, but u care about them regardless...

why is it so hard to seperate ur head from ur heart?

2007-07-07 20:40:29 · 4 answers · asked by Franky 1

i want to figure out life, i want to understand it completely, so i can become perfect.

i've been pondering this for 10 years now, and i've gotten absolutely no where. all this thinking has only brought me worry, stress, depression, and regret that i had to go through all this, and waste my life.

everywhere i go is another dead end, i keep struggling to finding the answer that will bring me perfection and eternal happiness. and even though i know that nothing in life is perfect, and nothing in life springs eternal happiness, i keep pushing myself to finding the answer to life that will bring it to me. why can't i do something about this endless struggle?

i'm 18 now, and i'm still at square one. what am i supposed to do? i just don't even know what do anymore, because its seems i've tried absolutely everything. i want my life to be worth something, but i just can't find out how.

is this just another stage that i have to live through, or is this an illness that i don't know?

2007-07-07 20:38:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anthony P 2

How does that make you feel? Smart or not so smart???

2007-07-07 20:36:53 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-07-07 20:34:55 · 3 answers · asked by Rana 7

2007-07-07 16:52:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know people who say vodka makes them angry or tequilla makes them 'easy'

2007-07-07 16:09:29 · 5 answers · asked by cuetee220 2

I feel so hopeless and feel like I can't get ahead in life.I lie in bed face down everynight just bawling for no reason.I'm trying to get a better job and I can't seem to succeed,I feel like everyone hates me....the list goes on and on.

2007-07-07 15:43:55 · 9 answers · asked by Kylie 4

2007-07-07 15:11:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am older than my sibling, but that doesnt matter, when we get into minor arguments, it blows out of proportion bec of her anger issues? She screams on top of her lungs, acts immature, and I cant be around this type of behavior. what to do??How do I escape this? We live together, hang out all the time, I cant make time for friends bec I feel I have to hang out with her, I feel obligated so I dont upset her, I am tired of having to act this way, I need a life without hostility ..what can I do to get away and not hurt her feelings..

2007-07-07 15:09:59 · 5 answers · asked by iluvwine 1

If we met face to face, what would be the first thing I would notice about YOU, and what would YOU be looking for in ME??
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Explain your answer...............
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P.S : I am an adult..in case someone should ask :)
I will give you my answer, when the question is resolved...
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Thanks, for answering in advance! :)

*Have a nice weekend* :-)

Take care!

2007-07-07 14:31:41 · 16 answers · asked by Kimberly 6

2007-07-07 14:16:45 · 2 answers · asked by lost47957 2

I've found that in my life I've been mentally surperior to most people, and it's not very fun. Its no fun to have any conversation with anyone because they all are boring and silly and dumb and tell bad jokes and I'm a lot smarter. I took a online DQ test and i got 97 goals. That's almost 100 pursent! I bet Micalangelo wasn't even that smart!

Was I just born this smart or do you think its pure skills?

2007-07-07 13:26:48 · 19 answers · asked by Mr. Kool 1

My uncle has offered to GIVE me a few thousands dollars to help with relocating. His wife died in March and I know he needs someone to "take care of". I don't feel right accepting it. What do you think I should do? How would you feel if you were him??

I don't want to hurt his feelings by not accepting it, but I would feel guilty.

2007-07-07 13:15:41 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Ashley K. 5

This is not a typo. Class Representation Medical Monitoring Law Suit settled:
"All claims against the Defendant are dismissed with predudice."
"There is no just reason for delay of entry of a final judgement of dismissal with prejudice as to the Plaintiffs and final judgement is hereby entered."
The Defendant was held liable yet the presentation of the case merited no "predudice". What is predudice?

2007-07-07 12:36:53 · 3 answers · asked by Kellis 1

I'm 22 years old.. I'm struggling with alot of insecurities.. It causes me to be really shy and quiet around some people... But other people I'm completely comfortable around. I've been like this for awhile. It might stem from a relationship I was in for four years with a guy constantly making me feel like I wasnt good enough. But that was 4 years ago that it ended. What can I do to get over this. Is it anxiety or insecurity? Sometimes I dont even want to go to the gym because of people being there. But if I go with a friend I'm fine. I just can't take it anymore I'm sick of being this weak insecure person.. What should I do to fix it??

2007-07-07 12:09:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I swear, I cannot see a single reason to live anymore. No-one listens to a word I say nowadays, and everybody seems so distant. The person I am in love with doesn't love me - not that she has any reason to - and I hate everything. I can't remember what happieness was like, and to be honest I don't think I can be bothered to wait to see what happens.
So can anyone in all honesty give me a good reason not to kill myself? And if the answer you give mentions making people late, I'll take you with me.

2007-07-07 12:08:02 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

(mature answers please)

I have a sister who does NOT like "less attractive" children. She won't give them the same attention as she would an attractive child. For example, they get neglected more often and more spankings than the attractive children, etc.

What in the world do you think is wrong with her?! She won't even let her child play with "ugly children". Does anyone else feel this way?! Is there some kind of theory behind this?! What does this say about a person?

2007-07-07 12:02:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous