Psychology - July 2007

My gf broke up with me the other day after I started to get upset about the fact that some kids were bad mouthing my band's performance. She said she is tired of me asking her quite a bit if she really loves me, asking her if she likes my music, etc. She said that I need to realize I can be happy without her. I know that I can, but I love her so much. Just a few days ago she said SHE would be unhappy if we broke up. She said she will always be by my side, even if she is not my girlfriend. She said that a hug would be nice, but it won't magically heal things...only time will. We have only communicated via myspace as she hasn't been home. She changed her relationship status to single and I left mine at "In a relationship" Should I just change it even though I don't want to be without her? Btw, we have been together for 2 years. Something like this happened last summer and I just let her "go", but she came back a few days later. I don't know if it's different this time.

2007-07-24 14:16:28 · 12 answers · asked by Mint Car 1

by the way, I have a huge freaking cranium

2007-07-24 13:29:55 · 10 answers · asked by Miss Megan Up4Grabs 4

2007-07-24 13:11:36 · 2 answers · asked by arp1 1

I care what my family and close friends think of me but as far as co-workers, strangers, church members, etc. How do you get over caring what they think of you? I feel I'm not enjoying my life because I care so much about what people think of me and how I live my life. I have certain preferences in life, for example going to meeting with a drive of about 45 minutes. I prefer to roll the window down because it makes me comfortable but I worry about what the other person will think of me. I worry about what people when i choose to do something that makes me comfortable because I'm afraid they will not understand why I do that. I get nervous real easy in certain situations but yet I have found ways to calm myself and people may not understand that. That is what is constantly goign through my mind, is what people will think of me for the things I do and not understand why I do them. None of them are bad; just ways to help me relax and enjoy life. How do I stop carrying?

2007-07-24 13:06:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently had a kind of, er, "roam rage" and smashed up my mobile phone in a fit of rage. I've never really enjoyed receiving calls on it or calling from it, and texting makes my brain hurt.

However I need it for work/life and never thought I'd be smashing it to pieces.

It's on the floor in three or four pieces. So, my question is, am I mental or strange?

2007-07-24 12:14:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i was young i was afraid of dogs , spiders, darkness and snakes, and except the dogs who i can cope with because i have one of my own at my grandma, the rest still scare me like the days i was a child, tell me your fears and how u fixed them maybe they'll inspire me, thank you

2007-07-24 12:09:51 · 12 answers · asked by WraitH 3

What is your biggest regret??

2007-07-24 12:01:47 · 22 answers · asked by leanne 2

How can I motivate myself to become the strongest person I could be?

2007-07-24 11:47:39 · 10 answers · asked by sophia100 2

2007-07-24 11:16:31 · 3 answers · asked by : 6

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2007-07-24 11:13:37 · 2 answers · asked by Matt 1

it has bad effects on self estrem it can talk all forms from name calling to a acts of violence to just isolating why do some people want to make life more differcult for nice people sometimes your made to feel like a aperson from anther planet any iders

2007-07-24 11:04:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-24 11:02:29 · 16 answers · asked by Boudicca 3

Be a millionaire but everything in life is meaning less (The shallow women who only want your money, the fake friends etc.. ) Live the way you're living now,
or be able to do anything you want on an island in paradise for a year but your memory is erased when that year is over.

2007-07-24 10:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by Phych 1

The other day I had an interview and my car is in the shop, we live together mind you.. Well she is running a bit late all I had to do is print my resume, takes 3 seconds. she says im late and just leaves, so I miss the interview.

Constantly it seems she does things like this and does not even bat an eye. It is almost like she does not have a conscience. She meets with her ex's, does as she pleases. Ya it's possible she just doesnt care about me, but I think it is far deeper then that. I would not do that to someone I did not like let alone a boyfriend.

Also when we argue she threatens to call the police and tell them I raped her, just to get me to back down.

Thoughts?

2007-07-24 10:36:29 · 19 answers · asked by jjjjjjj j 1

Be honest now........ I'll be calling round later to check.

2007-07-24 10:07:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Females, do you have a bubble butt and do you like it or are you self conscience of it? what do you think other people (guys) think of your big butt?

2007-07-24 10:00:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been working for this job for like 7 months and i go sometimes...they like me..but im scared if i mess up and im a bit anti social and is scared of being aroundpeople and talking...can u please tell me how i can be more sociable and how...please

2007-07-24 09:53:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-24 09:48:39 · 3 answers · asked by discovering more 1

I know this extremely jealous, nosy, manipulative person and I just really want to get her frustrated. She uses both covert and overt aggression. She also loves to play the victim and cry when manipulating people or when her true self is exposed.

I do try to ignore her, but I just get so frustrated and I would really love to just piss her off (in a respectful way-if that is possible). Does anyone have any advice?

2007-07-24 09:35:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate getting my hair cut because of the way it feels. I get this crazy sensation. Its difficult to describe. Its almost like all of a sudden my nerves become super active and my head starts pulsating. Its so uncomfortable I can't sit still. My whole body starts to shake. I've had a sensitive head all my life buts its really bad when I get my hair cut. Actually my whole body is sensetive just not to the same degree. Is this something I'm making up in my head? Is this actually a physical reaction or just something mental? I really would just like to live a normal life and get haircuts like every body else.

2007-07-24 09:32:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a very over anxious person. I don't like sitting and I like to be able to do what I want when I want. My job has been very good to me in the fact that I am my own boss, so to speak, and I make my own schedule. (I am the Director of Sales for a country club). Anyway the hardest thing for me is meetings. When I go into a meeting, I always sit close to the door and I feel very overwhelmed. I feel like my face is burning and my heart is racing, my stomach hurts to the point I think I may have to run to the bathroom. I don't mind talking in front of people etc. it is just the point of having to sit on someone else time. Does this even make any sense? Anyway what are some techniques of things I can do to calm me down. It has gotten to the point where I will make up excuses to skip or get out early!!

2007-07-24 09:27:57 · 6 answers · asked by inhisword26 2

What problems do one suffer when they have been physically, verbally or sexually abused? What mental illnesses or social disfunction results from childhood issues?

2007-07-24 08:45:17 · 4 answers · asked by kingdom734 1

I don't think I fear death but I do fear pain.

2007-07-24 08:40:44 · 16 answers · asked by austinblnd 4

2007-07-24 08:30:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you chalk your accomplishments up to luck, the generosity of others, or write them off by saying anyone could have done it? aren't you aware how unique your combination of mind and motivation is?

anyone else COULD have done 'it', but you DID. do you feel that give yourself enough credit? do others?

2007-07-24 08:06:27 · 11 answers · asked by patzky99 6

What made you cry?

2007-07-24 07:45:56 · 25 answers · asked by Kain 5

2007-07-24 06:49:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-24 06:49:09 · 14 answers · asked by Kain 5

some due to drug abbuse-- but on the other side-- i know people who use cannabis and have done so for years with no problem! what do you think the goverment will do??

2007-07-24 06:21:24 · 20 answers · asked by emarston@btinternet.com 2

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2007-07-24 06:10:34 · 14 answers · asked by Kimberly 6