2007-07-24 06:49:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Because that means that you are (game over) and this sensation is really hard, It happened to me many times, when my sister organized a party and they thougth I was weird and rare but I was not that kind of person so they said ooohh poor sergio lets invite him !! but I like all the partyes but not all the kind of people.
So I think that makes you feel you are defeated when it is false!!
2007-07-24 08:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does it make you angry for them to feel sorry for you, you said you had no friends. For people I don't know to feel sorry for me is something I will not know. If they say things to me then they are sticking their nose into my business. Now if they are trying to help you, than why are they saying things that they know will hurt. Is it raining where you live?
2007-07-24 14:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I'm the same way. When I get into accidents it absolutely infuriates me when people are like, "oh you poor thing let me help you". I'm like *slap* leave me alone and mind your own business. I don't think it's really pride... it's more like the need for autonomy. The buggar off personality disorder or something :-).
2007-07-24 14:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mystic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Extremely angry? You have poor control of your emotions and misplaced anger.
I dispise pity as well, but I don't waste energy on extreme anger. You will get less pity when you act less pitiful.
2007-07-24 14:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you don't like people feeling sorry for you and it irritates you becs ur not a baby that needs to be rocked on someone's arms...
2007-07-24 14:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Liza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think its just another brick in the wall for you Coop my old mate. See there is no pleasing some folks, sometimes they think everyone is against them, othertimes they dont want any sympathy. Wadayagoonado? eh? Whaaaaaadayagonnado?
2007-07-24 15:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by bletherskyte 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pride or maybe dignity. I don't like people feeling sorry for me too. So was my friend. When she wanted to tease me she would say....awww poor girl and I'm like WHAT!!! you B!TCH!!
2007-07-24 14:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't control what others feel. Thinking that you have to is crazy making.
2007-07-24 18:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl Durham, Ph.D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I get the same way too.
2007-07-24 14:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by kandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means that you should stop telling people your problems...then they have nothing to pity you for...become interesting,and find something else to talk about..
2007-07-24 16:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋