My gf broke up with me the other day after I started to get upset about the fact that some kids were bad mouthing my band's performance. She said she is tired of me asking her quite a bit if she really loves me, asking her if she likes my music, etc. She said that I need to realize I can be happy without her. I know that I can, but I love her so much. Just a few days ago she said SHE would be unhappy if we broke up. She said she will always be by my side, even if she is not my girlfriend. She said that a hug would be nice, but it won't magically heal things...only time will. We have only communicated via myspace as she hasn't been home. She changed her relationship status to single and I left mine at "In a relationship" Should I just change it even though I don't want to be without her? Btw, we have been together for 2 years. Something like this happened last summer and I just let her "go", but she came back a few days later. I don't know if it's different this time.
2007-07-24 14:16:28 · 12 answers · asked by Mint Car 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
sounds like she maybe talking with someone else. You will know in your heart when it is time to change your myspace status. By the way, you also need to work on your insecurities.
2007-07-24 14:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by sadealz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break for awhile, and yes change your my space to single or swinger whatever. Keep calm and talk to her if she contacts you. She broke up with you let her contact you. In the meantime, go have some fun. Go out and do something. Quit being a freaking doormat she's walking all over you! My advice is go out and have fun and meet some new girls. Your in a rut! May be the old girlfriend will realize how lucky she was when she sees your out having fun!
2007-07-24 14:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by ????? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you cant take criticism about your music, which explains your insecurity in your relationship. Obviously your girlfriend is tired of your whiny insecurity and wants a man not a litte boy.
keep your relationship status the way you want. obviously she has moved on so what you do has no bearing on her now what so ever.
2007-07-24 14:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know girls......like alot. Maybe you can ask her to give you 1 chance since you love her so much. I don't know if this is a good idea but maybe get with another girl and try to make your girlfriend jealous. Ending up she might be coming back for you. Good Luck! :)
2007-07-24 14:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls hate it when guys are inscure about everyhing. and that's what you are by asking her all the time if she loves you still and likes your music etc. by breaking up with you she's making you stand on your own 2 feet and make you become more secure about yourself so now it's your turn to show her you can. and if you want her back you will.
2007-07-24 14:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for another chance and say to her lets take it slow so we can get to know what is bothering us in out relationship and maybe we can compromise and fix these problems.
2007-07-24 14:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sammy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really common for a guy. Just dont act about your band, she really doesnt care on the inside. Just be friends and mabye, just mabye, you will get back together with her.
2007-07-24 14:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by ashley_sweet_cheekie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound to "needy" for approval from her. She is probably tired of it always being about "you".
Leave her alone...change your profile to single and move on.
2007-07-24 14:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by kys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go and let god if it's meant to be it will happen if not let it go you both sound deep in communication and love
2007-07-24 14:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to gain some self confidence --- it really turns a girl off when you feel you have to question everything as you have been --- if you can work on that maybe she will come back!!!!
Good Luck!
2007-07-24 14:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by ♥sexy momma♥ ;-) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋