Psychology - April 2007

I am thinking about going to college for alcohol and substance abuse counseling and i was wondering if it is alot of hard work?

2007-04-06 05:18:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-06 05:05:07 · 14 answers · asked by Geets18 1

My ex girlfriend and I split up around 2 months ago,and she finished with me due to stress at the time from other things. We still remained friends,but I always wanted more,and tried so hard to get over her. Yesterday, she invited me around her place to watch a dvd and have lunch. We watch the DVD and midway through I find myself holding her hand, and her not pushing me off. Then we play around for a bit, and I end up kissing her, she doesn't pull me away, and we carry on. This goes on for the next hour or so, she says she isn't over me, and misses me and really likes me, i say i miss her and like her too, and that maybe we shud get back together,but a slower relationship this time.she agrees,and i leave later. then i get a message saying that she hates me, that i realised she had feelings for me, and i shud have left it,& not come on to her! / Now i feel stupid,& she says she wants to go cold, as best for all, as her emotions are shattered!

2007-04-06 04:58:45 · 11 answers · asked by dafadf a 1

It has become very difficult for me to forgive people cause I've set a parameter between right and wrong. Consequently, most of the time I find people on the wrong side and thus avoid to mingle with them. Can you people advise me?

2007-04-06 04:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-06 04:44:43 · 10 answers · asked by sampoorna 1

so much - I am being asked this by my friend - trouble is I am not - around two hours a day - whilst he watches fishing etc., plus I enjoy it and feel as if I am keeping my brain active in certain categories..............how much time do you spend on the computer then

2007-04-06 04:39:10 · 19 answers · asked by deep in thought 4

I had the coolest dream last night...yet i cant help but feel it means something also:
Ok, so i'm at my grandmas house and this girl (who is a family friend of my stepdad's) is there also. We are sitting there talking (though i dont know what about). Suddenly, the newspaper is hit at the door. I go out on the front step and get it. I open it up and a tiny brass beetle (it's not alive and is about the size of my thumbnail) falls to the floor. I pick it up and set it on the mantle. Then i open up the paper and the first thing i notice is an ad for a concert to be held at the mall. the ad reads: "HIM and My Chemical Romance today at Fox Valley Mall!" then under that it says in fine print: "Bring your Harley (Davidson motorcycle of course) and you and your friend get in free!" The girl that was with my grandma and i has a harley and shows me that she has remodeled it: decked out in gold beetles! So she takes me to the concert and the stage is also decked out in gold beetles.
Meaning???

2007-04-06 04:34:53 · 6 answers · asked by jo_z_rox2011 2

who've not gone through anything, and are happy in life, and wear huge grins and smiles all the time?

how do you not feel like this? or disgruntled towards folk? and society?
what type of inner resolve does it take not to feel like this?

2007-04-06 04:27:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 23 and have been with my boyfriend Xavier of the same age for 3 months now.He's a really great guy but unfortunately has some serious trust issues due to having been cheated on twice before.I've always been into friendly flirting regardless of whether I was single or not and have stayed friends with a lot of my ex-boyfriends though I have never cheated.Xavier doesn't seem to be able to deal with that.All my other boyfriends have been able to get used to the idea but none of them have ever treated me as well as he has.I don't know where to go from here.I don't want to give him up but won't I just be enabling by cutting down on the flirting and seeng less of my ex-boyfriends?

2007-04-06 04:16:04 · 15 answers · asked by Xavier's Girl 1

Can someone tell me a little about each of these careers? I was interested in those but im not sure what each of them do.

Thanks

2007-04-06 04:02:14 · 1 answers · asked by yo_ho_ho_pirates_life 1

in your opinion what could the worst thing a human could do that would result them as evil

2007-04-06 03:52:22 · 6 answers · asked by Jordun 1

By this I mean do both genders experience the same feelings during sex?

2007-04-06 02:33:48 · 10 answers · asked by ram 1

you are faced with people who thinks that you are a criminal, perhaps from suspicions/gossips/rumours. those who think this about you are those you thought were your friends. you want to stop these thoughts being forever stamped in their minds. you know these rumours/gossips/suspicions are not true.
1) would you approach the matter by directly telling them that it is not true or just ignore it and let them continue to think these thoughts about you?
2) by confronting these people and letting them know that whatever they thought is not true, will you be thought of as a criminal minded person before the finger is pointed towards him he tries to justify himself that he is clean?

2007-04-06 01:24:54 · 10 answers · asked by cryoprometheus 2

i really diddn't say the gross thing.
the gross thing was how to kiss?
it wasen't me and i said pass this to the people you know that i diddn't say the gross question

2007-04-06 01:02:33 · 5 answers · asked by Emily 1

someone say long nose looks weired. what makes to make our mind that long nose does not look good. if a person is living in africa and he never saw women of europe whether he has idea that a white blond woman with blue eyes is more beautifull than the african.

2007-04-06 00:51:08 · 7 answers · asked by nick 1

a professional did not but put you down and alot of it was not true it was someone gossiping. i did stand up for myself but in the end i began to cry and walked out. Never had an experience like it in my life it was awful. I cant, stand the man who was doing it

2007-04-06 00:37:07 · 10 answers · asked by hairy armpits 2

2007-04-06 00:36:59 · 7 answers · asked by jammy.greeny@talk21.com 1

I am a student of masculinity and men and I try to figure out various aspects of being a man.

I have noticed that it is difficult for men to say sorry to someone they know loves them, be it a parent or a friend (although attitude towards girlfriends/ wives are different in western and Indian society). For them it becomes a prestige issue a thing of ego to say sorry. Even when they know they have done wrong, they will do other things (like being nice) and expect to be forgiven.

However, where they really love a person (more than the other person) and can't take the other's love for granted, there men have no qualms about saying "sorry". They are willing to bend quite a lot and leave aside their 'egos' in order to placate them

What do you think of this obeservation from your personal life and that around you.

Expereinces and views of men are especially welcome. Women can only give an 'outsider's' view.

Can somoone dwell on the causes?

2007-04-06 00:25:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

When something nice happens you feel good, and it can be measured in magnetudes.

1) Smile
2) Laughing
3) Rawing with joy and laughter
4) Screeming with joy as if you have won millions of dollars
5) You go deadly serious because of the awe of what is about to happen and it appears to feel like a dark shroud covering everything, anticipating being crippled by pleasure.

If something very good is going to happen, I will often get this feeling as though it has become very very dark, like before a thunderstorm. It will be calm but you will see it coming.
You will be filled awe and amazement with the coming event like a psuenami is about to arrive.
Usually if I get that feeling, I am right.

What is this emotion called?

2007-04-06 00:04:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex girlfriend and I split up around 2 months ago,and she finished with me due to stress at the time from other things. We still remained friends,but I always wanted more,and tried so hard to get over her. Yesterday, she invited me around her place to watch a dvd and have lunch. We watch the DVD and midway through I find myself holding her hand, and her not pushing me off. Then we play around for a bit, and I end up kissing her, she doesn't pull me away, and we carry on. This goes on for the next hour or so, she says she isn't over me, and misses me and really likes me, i say i miss her and like her too, and that maybe we shud get back together,but a slower relationship this time.she agrees,and i leave later. then i get a message saying that she hates me, that i realised she had feelings for me, and i shud have left it,& not come on to her! / Now i feel stupid,& she says she wants to go cold, as best for all, as her emotions are shattered!

2007-04-05 23:40:30 · 7 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1

2007-04-05 23:10:07 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it abnormal to have fear about meeting new people many times...?

2007-04-05 22:53:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I'm completely paranoid about this..So I've been with a guy for totally of almost 3 years with a break in between and we're crazy about each other. The only times we've had huge problems were b/c of stuff I did. Anyways like the last week I've become insanely insecure, jealous and untrusting towards him and I dont know why. Like so much its driving me crazy...I hate it and its so unlike me so I dont know whats up with me, I dont trust him at all the last few weeks. And last night I had really detailed dreams that I found out he was cheating on me. Lately there were a few things {{porn//random #'s..stuff like that}} that bothered me but I dont know why its so sudden. Its like a really strong gut feeling. Any ideas why??

2007-04-05 22:44:08 · 1 answers · asked by sunshine&summertime! 3

It's like when the opportunity come at you, but since you're not feeling right (It always the feeling I have, I must convince my feeling all the time, when it takes days, then the opportunity gone). It makes me thinking, I'm wasting my time try to convince myself, but less doing anything, thus makes me not an effective person.

It's not a good attitude, right?


10 pts. for good or detailed answer.

2007-04-05 21:44:45 · 2 answers · asked by Doo.ri 3

2007-04-05 21:33:05 · 22 answers · asked by setexamplez 1

Would any medication or treatment make Him a normal human?

2007-04-05 21:25:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why should we as Americans hate one another? We have other countries turning their backs on us Hating us..Enough with the @@@@@@ hate against 1 another!!

2007-04-05 21:16:11 · 20 answers · asked by setexamplez 1

Seems foreign to me as a spider goes and I'm not a big fan of spiders ; that's for sure ; ]

2007-04-05 21:11:53 · 17 answers · asked by farklemairgle1 1

Ok, I had this unreal realization that everyone wants to answer a question. I just want to ask all the the obvious questions and get the most honests truths. Straight, if you want a war of psychology, email me you're email or msn, and i'll journey throught your mind.

2007-04-05 21:07:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello I am an insurance agent with a horrible case of bad time management and disorganization. I am a good person and am not rude or disrespectful to my customers but because of the above issues I am losing clients. I need to hire someone but I can't afford it. I am missing phone calls and not calling back in a timely fashion. (not because I don't care but because I don't have priorities. I just had a baby and I am torn to be with her too. (That is also why my business is flailing) I am behind on my paperwork and people are starting to get pist. Will I ever be redeemable to my customers if I turn around my disorganized life around? Or should I give up on owning my company and let someone else and give better service to my clients. (It does take time to change) I am really sick over this more for my clients though. What should I do?

2007-04-05 20:35:04 · 6 answers · asked by Bellas Mama 1