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Question

I think I'm completely paranoid about this..So I've been with a guy for totally of almost 3 years with a break in between and we're crazy about each other. The only times we've had huge problems were b/c of stuff I did. Anyways like the last week I've become insanely insecure, jealous and untrusting towards him and I dont know why. Like so much its driving me crazy...I hate it and its so unlike me so I dont know whats up with me, I dont trust him at all the last few weeks. And last night I had really detailed dreams that I found out he was cheating on me. Lately there were a few things {{porn//random #'s..stuff like that}} that bothered me but I dont know why its so sudden. Its like a really strong gut feeling. Any ideas why??

Answer 1

Apparently he has been acting different in some way lately to make you feel this way. You are dreaming about it because it is what you're thinking about right now and worrying about. If he is acting differently ask him what's going on and if his feelings have changed. Tell him you just don't feel quite as connected lately. Watch his actions. They will tell you more than his words. If he starts doing things differently, staying out later or going out more, hanging with a new group of friends, etc. These things could be a sign that something is changing or going on. Better to talk about it than to hold it in and let it drive you crazy.