My ex girlfriend and I split up around 2 months ago,and she finished with me due to stress at the time from other things. We still remained friends,but I always wanted more,and tried so hard to get over her. Yesterday, she invited me around her place to watch a dvd and have lunch. We watch the DVD and midway through I find myself holding her hand, and her not pushing me off. Then we play around for a bit, and I end up kissing her, she doesn't pull me away, and we carry on. This goes on for the next hour or so, she says she isn't over me, and misses me and really likes me, i say i miss her and like her too, and that maybe we shud get back together,but a slower relationship this time.she agrees,and i leave later. then i get a message saying that she hates me, that i realised she had feelings for me, and i shud have left it,& not come on to her! / Now i feel stupid,& she says she wants to go cold, as best for all, as her emotions are shattered!
2007-04-05 23:40:30 · 7 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You didn't do anything wrong. She gave you mixed emotions. Might be time to find someone ready for a commitment like you are.
2007-04-05 23:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Summer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is confused and doesn't know what she wants right now. I'd give her a little time and space to think about it and let her be the one to contact you next time. How confusing for you that must have been. I don't think you did anything wrong, maybe moved a bit too fast, but she didn't say no or stop you. I wish you the best of luck and hope you get this straightened out.
2007-04-06 08:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend sounds a bit unstable. She needs to get her head straight. Don't let her play with yours. Remain friends but move on with your life.
2007-04-06 06:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by Miki S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her and look her straight in the eyes and say ( Life is much better for me when your around) and you can tell by her eye movement if she deep down feels the same way
2007-04-06 06:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by Chef Eric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so!!!You said what you truly felt and she acknowledged!!!Don't feel stupid...maybe she just got scared and didn't know what else to do!!!I know i do it sometimes.When you go for something or someone and as soon as you have to go back to reality,you get scared and push it away!!!!Just tell her your sorry!I hope it works out for you!!I mean,you really like her!!!All the best!!!=)
2007-04-06 06:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by funkyvishy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused, over-dramatic female. Move on and forget her.
2007-04-06 10:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is using you
2007-04-06 06:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by lazerangel99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋