Psychology - March 2007

Surviving a life that most people don't except, trying to find myself, being in deep depression, hating myself because my entire life people have hated me, and trying to find someone to love me for who I am. I am SO confused. I can't put up with it and I'm not sure that I will be able to survive it!

2007-03-21 08:38:59 · 11 answers · asked by §~You can't judge me!~§ 3

how to move on ,smile alot ,be optmistic?

2007-03-21 08:32:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

...and in it my class from school and I were sitting and talking (nicely, actually) and praying a little on comfy couches and then before we knew it a natzi came in and he told us to deny God, and, being a christian, I stood up and said no, and he shot me along with other people. But when he shot me the bullet didn't do anything at all! and this really shy and quiet girl who was sitting next to me stood up too. Do you think this means anything significant?

2007-03-21 08:30:14 · 5 answers · asked by Jill D. 1

Not being able to communicate with people in public has been the biggest handicap of my life. I'm a 22yr old male with a loving girlfriend and friends that accept me for who I am, yet, in school I can't join in conversations, even though I relate to everyone (it's a game development school). I have done research and discovered I'm not just 'shy', rather, I have social anxiety. How can I overcome this? I have such low self esteem and little confidence in myself. I wish I could *poof* be 'normal', but can't. Does anyone have any tips for me? Maybe some medication reccomendations lol? Thank you for your time!

2007-03-21 08:30:06 · 6 answers · asked by sastbmabs 3

My oldest son turned 13 at the beginning of this month. If he isnt hiding in his room he is fighting with his 11 yr old brother and 6 yr old sister. He has went from being and honor roll student to almost failing, and has ZERO respect. For example I spent 2 days working VERY hard to get my Living room, Dining room and Kitchen rearranged and immaculate. My son decided to wipe spagetti sauce on the front of the cabinet in the kitchen, he knows finances are hard but still "sneaks" all the snacks I have set aside for my daughter for school making me run out before the end of the month and does it even tho I have explained the situation...he has even hunted them down when I hide them. He thinks the world revovles around him and that he knows everything. WHAT DO I DO. Does anyone have any ideas on how to manage this. He has ADHD, is medicated. I am going through a divorce but he is glad to be away from his step father, his father that he didnt even know commited suicide.

2007-03-21 08:25:52 · 17 answers · asked by Kujo 3

would you rather save two siblings of five strangers?

if you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?

would you go back into a fire to save someone?

would you go into the future if you could?

if you could stay one age forever which age would you stay.



these arew just a few questions to make you think
:) :( :0 :p :o :D

2007-03-21 08:22:28 · 19 answers · asked by shortysherry46 3

I have a friend that is going to an inpatient facility to get taken off of anti depressants - not sure which ones.. but I was wondering, besides the normal feelings of withdrawels (diziness, etc).. are there any horrible side effects that I should be worried about? "Complications", I guess..

Thank you for your time.

2007-03-21 08:19:36 · 7 answers · asked by butterflikzd 1

Its like shopping for a baby totally weird. Like you pick the genes you want your baby to have? There has to be a limit.

2007-03-21 08:11:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wondering because everytime i go in there i see it open

2007-03-21 08:09:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I came to a realization today. I have had a problem growing up. I am 33 and I have resisted it my whole life. I guess I just always want to have fun and the not so fun stuff I resist or run away from.

I am taking a step towards marriage. It scares me to death. I am scared about being a husband, having children, and having people depend on me. All of these things will cause me to put myself second. It's scary. But I want to do it.

I am going back to school and trying to get a better job.

They say you have to face your fears. I am trying.

Questions:
1. What is wrong with me?
2. Am I on the right track?
3. Any suggestions on how I can stop being so selfish and step up to the plate in my life for once?
4. Being depended on and making decisions makes me irritable. How can I change this?

2007-03-21 08:08:19 · 9 answers · asked by engagedheart 1

What do you think?

2007-03-21 08:07:38 · 5 answers · asked by Zahro k 1

MY REPLY:

Depends. Job questioned God and himself initially. So did Moses.

But they went on and did so, and God showed them why he requested they do as he said.

We are still humans with limit comprehension levels (compared to God), so it's common to question his requests. The point of the matter is will we choose to do so or not.

CASE and POINT: God is asking you to turn your life over to him. Will you do so?


UR thoughts?

2007-03-21 08:00:39 · 2 answers · asked by se-ke 3

2007-03-21 07:59:22 · 2 answers · asked by Flo 1

I have been seeing a man who is very mean (in my opinion). I grow tired of how when I am upset about something, he always turns it around, effectively not accepting any responsibility for his rude behavior. The other night I was stunned when he said to me, "Why can't you just enjoy your life like everyone else?"

To say the least, this took me back. Is everyone else enjoying their lives? Then why are people so mean and why do they look so tired? I have never worked in a job I enjoyed and never had enough money to get by. Are there people, besides Oprah, who actually enjoy their life? Are there people who enjoy their jobs?

If so, I would love to hear from you.

2007-03-21 07:58:48 · 14 answers · asked by robertspeg 1

It should be a problem people experience within an organization.

2007-03-21 07:49:01 · 4 answers · asked by anamaye 1

I know that Rutgers, Pepperdine, and Baylor have great reputations, does anyone know what other universities are excellent as well?

2007-03-21 07:45:36 · 4 answers · asked by pizza_party9 2

POSER
show interest...

delve into the region of sensibility..

trigger a sense of appreciation..

stretch the veil of security...



pierce into it..

bleed unto it .......



trip into the mind...

set the mood...

twist the heart and

set it on fire..



then..

slowly slowly...

diffuse ..

till everything's gone..

and you're left empty



because all is merely an illusion...

such is what a poser does.

2007-03-21 07:43:15 · 4 answers · asked by tatit 1

I like a girl but I seem to can't get her out of my mind no matter what I do. Please, I need someone's help

2007-03-21 07:39:34 · 8 answers · asked by Robert K 1

in terms of real life ,what do doctors call his problem?

2007-03-21 07:38:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm chronically late and I've tried lots of different things (waking up earlier, having all my clocks set at 'altered' times) but they don't seem to work.

2007-03-21 07:37:14 · 17 answers · asked by koro 1

I'm a very introverted, introspective person.

People have told me that i need to find a dynamic extrovert as a mate. Although sometimes I find quieter men attractive, because they seem sensitive and on my wavelength...

Is it true that people who are quiet need people who will ''break them out of their shell?''

2007-03-21 07:30:54 · 10 answers · asked by Erica 3

2007-03-21 07:24:54 · 24 answers · asked by o 2

2007-03-21 07:07:41 · 13 answers · asked by STORMY K 3

I have been having the same dream now every night for three months. it concerns myself going to a funeral of someone i know ( and kinda fancy). after the trauma of the funeral me and a friend head to the pub and i take out a tenner to pay the drinks. my friend refuses to let me pay for them and takes out a bag of 1p and 2p pieces to pay. then i turn round and the person i know ( who has just been buried ) is standing behind me. he then gives me a hug - and thats where i wake up

please help me its driving me nuts!!!

2007-03-21 07:07:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have borderline personality disorder, and in the past ive had problems with inner rage and losing control of it. this has caused me to be atacked by street hoodlams, many times. in 97 i got my head smashed open, with a wooden chair leg, by 3 hooded youths. many years latler, amoungst other things, i still struggle with inner rage, and losing control of impulse. stay ive socially isolated myself, and are scared of goin out. i only go out when i have to. i feel lonely, isolated and miserable. i have no friends to turn to. male or female. im waiting for therapy. im scared when i go out, what if it happens again? how would i deal with it? i have overwhelmin anxiety and the fear controls my life....im wonderin how i can overcome this?

2007-03-21 07:07:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do NOT CLAIM TO KNOW much about it...but i know it when i see it....i would think he would know...BUT NOT BE ABLE TO CHANGE IT...IT IS A PATTERN you think??? thank you!!!

2007-03-21 07:01:42 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 4

my roommate is in remediation and her boss sent her out to meet with one of the cliants and it is her first time meeting with the cliant and dose not know what to say or how to greet them.

2007-03-21 06:58:42 · 4 answers · asked by hotleggs666@sbcglobal.net 1

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Question 5:
Your best friend is buried in a coffin, and ground water is seeping in fast. The only man who knows where he/she is, happens to be a madman. Guys: He will tell you where he/she is if you castrate yourself with a small razor blade. Girls: You must cut off your nipples and use a nail clipper to mutilate your genitals. The damage cannot be fixable for either.

Is friendship worth it? The choice is yours. Choose wisely.

2007-03-21 06:54:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ran away and would never think of doing it again.
because running from everything does nothing for you

2007-03-21 06:45:31 · 3 answers · asked by dragon_blade115 1

2007-03-21 06:45:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous