I need help with my weird dreams!?

Question

I have been having the same dream now every night for three months. it concerns myself going to a funeral of someone i know ( and kinda fancy). after the trauma of the funeral me and a friend head to the pub and i take out a tenner to pay the drinks. my friend refuses to let me pay for them and takes out a bag of 1p and 2p pieces to pay. then i turn round and the person i know ( who has just been buried ) is standing behind me. he then gives me a hug - and thats where i wake up

please help me its driving me nuts!!!

Answer 1

Death normally means the ending of something. Being that it is a friend and someone you fancy perhaps a part of your life that you really like is ending. The fact that your friend pays for your drinks in pennies instead of your ten pound note indicates that this ending seems to you to be smaller or more complicated. The person has died that hugs you, would indicate that what is ending, isn't totally ending, but just something you have to let go of, and the hug shows that it is okay because hugs are comforting and indicate safety and security.

Answer 2

What you have to try to do is shift these boring thoughts from your mind and replace them with totally different and more exciting and enjoyable thoughts. I know that is easier said than done? But your nightmare is because what is on your mind during daytime hours is what will feature in your dreams that night, so if you think about it all the time, it will just go on happening.

One way to change that is by self hypnotism, which basically means you have to relax yourself starting at the top and working down your body bit by bit before sleep, and once totally relaxed "order" yourself to get rid of these thoughts. This is a complex subject and you need to read up about self hypnosis on a website or in a book before trying it. Also try to devote your free time to watching really interesting and exciting movies on the TV, such as war movies, and imagine yourself to be the hero, instead of you being in a boring pub wasting your time on such stupid mundane behaviour as drinking beer.

Convince yourself that is all boring silliness and the nightmare will just stop! It will be replaced by something much more interesting stimulating and enjoyable in your dreams and you will sleep much better. Good luck.

Answer 3

I'm not 100% sure what the dream means but I am guessing that you should give the guy a hint that you like him. Usually in a dream when you dream of death it usually means the start of something new. So maybe it means you will be starting a new relationship with him. The money may represent that it doesn't have to be a big hint just a little one will do the job.

Answer 4

hi , ... well death in a dream means good health of th person you have dreamed dead its a missconception it really means that the person in question is going to fall ill or even die , so dont worry yourself over that.
as for the pennies this could signify that your friend or yourself (but i think your friend) may well be coming into money.
if you are having the same dream every night try taking controll of your dream (this can happen when you know you are dreaming, which if you are having the same dream over and over you may well be able to achieve), and try and see if you can elaborate on your dream , ie: ask the person that has died why hes still here? or ask the friend with the pennies why they are paying in pennies rather than i larger amount of tender.
i am not a dream expert but i hope it helps
sweet dreams x

Answer 5

Um definite final evening I had the strangest desires approximately those that i visit college with. I regardless of the undeniable fact that it grow to be atypical because of the fact I graduated college this 3 hundred and sixty 5 days. And the different evening I had a dream that each and all of the travelers that confirmed as much as my grad. social gathering had those faces like the toddlers do in the purple Floyd video for yet another Brick in the Wall

Answer 6

Well no doubt there'll be some educated-freak telling you it's your brain trying to resolve some issue that's just not getting resolved or something.

Hey, I aint no edu-freak and I aint no dream analyser either. But I believe we are spiritual beings and dreams are one way that communications reach you from the 'other side'. Mabye no-one you know has died yet or mabye they will in the future. But I would consider it a message or mabye a premonition. Don't be worried about death it's only a transition back to our spirit state which is our true selves. I believe many things in dreams and even this life are used to illustrate the greater things to come.

Have you received Jesus as your Lord? This world is on it's way out and soon will be the New Earth as described in the book of revalation in the Bible. Jesus did not come to this world to condemn it but to save it (from certain destruciton and death). Satan himself walks about the earth "As a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour". This world is temporarily his until the Lord returns to reclaim it and return it to it's beautiful and natural state when the whole world will live in harmony again.

The Lord loves you and is waiting for you to ask Him in. He is the opposite of death and fear and is pure and true light and love. What you've always been looking for.

Answer 7

I don't know much about dream interpreting I though seem to be able to work out my own with a few simple things.

Mainly, what are your FEELINGS during this dream. Are you shocked? Scared ? Confused ?

It's not always about the persons, more what they represent. Look at what you feel during the dream and apply them to your life. say in your dream you feel shocked. Think of anything you are finding it hard to come to terms with. This could help. Your subconscious is simply conjuring up a scenario in order to convey how your feeling underneath. Try and work it out yourself.

I hope you do and do resolve it. Sorry I couldn't be more help! XX

Answer 8

it may be triggered by an issue you have with this person who dies. I know that reoccuring dreams can be caused by things which are going on in your life which worry you.
My grandpa used to have to go for a proper medical check up once a year, because he was in bad health. He knew he was ill, and these check ups used to really worry him, in case something was wrong and he was going to die. Every night before his check up, and only then, he used to have a dream that he was standing in an empty room. He stands still, in his dream, and moves his head and looks around. Then all of a sudden the room explodes around him.
Maybe if you confront this issue, it'll go away

Answer 9

Some may say that your deceased friend is showing you that they made it safely to the other side and that they are still with you. In your dream give them a hug, acknowledge them, and they may move on.

The money has a symbolic meaning. Perhaps that you owe nothing for your friendship.

Peace.

Answer 10

These dreams are not unusual. You need to try and influence the dreams " events / outcome " to your liking. To do this you need to think about it BEFORE you go to sleep and think of the turn of events YOU want.........then lie back and wait for the dream to take YOUR story line. Try that one and you will be amazed how much you can influence the event. Good Luck.