Psychology - March 2007

Me and my husband have been happily married for 8 years.We had 2 kids, one 4 the other 6.Three month ago my younger son Jordon passed away from cancer and it just about killed me.I wasn't dealing at all and left town a month after the funeral to stay with an ex-boyfriend/good friend to get myself together,leaving my husband and 6 yr old on their own.I stayed away for 3 months because I just couldn't deal with being at home where everything reminded me of my son.I came home last week and although my son was overjoyed to see me,my husband has barely said a word to me since I left.He begged me to come home whenever I called but I was never ready until now and now it seems it's too late and he can't forgive me for leaving.I don't believe in getting professional help.What do I do?

2007-03-22 04:17:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

...Lately nothing goes in the right direction. I try so hard to find a better job that this that I have...nothing...I want to have adecent guy and spend the days with someone...nothing....I lost my faith ...cuz nothing is happening....and today for the fifth time...they called me to tell me that I'm not hired. I feel so down...I feel like I'm crying...os there any hope for me...when things will turn for better...

serious answers please,
thank you.

2007-03-22 04:14:40 · 5 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5

Something drastic, like you had to break up with your partner or sell your house or something.

2007-03-22 04:12:09 · 17 answers · asked by floppity 7

I feel really low and depressed, what could i do to brighten myself up and feel happy like i used to? I just feel like nothings going for me. Help?

2007-03-22 04:03:28 · 19 answers · asked by K 4

I hate them. I know you are not supposed to hate people, but I can't stand liars. My now ex-boyfriend has not been telling me the truth throughout are entir relationship, short though it was.

2007-03-22 04:03:20 · 23 answers · asked by kyishiafrazier 2

My therapist says I have a hard time with my "sense of self" and have "low ego strength" and I "let others project their stuff onto me." I am trying to understand what this means. Can anyone give me some insight or examples to help me understand this?

2007-03-22 03:56:12 · 5 answers · asked by bamakathy 3

I dreampt last night me n my bf were sitting in this place and a girl came over and sat on his lap and he was all flirty and stuff so i went over and sat on her bf lap, my bf didnt seem bothered so me and this other one went off into this room and started kissing when we came out she was topless and all over him. he knew i was there and wernt botherd about me in the slightest! Weird or what??

2007-03-22 03:36:07 · 8 answers · asked by Leesa 2

Im doing a research paper and i need to know what effects a relationship-like friendships, family, and intimate....

2007-03-22 03:34:42 · 6 answers · asked by Leslie!!!!! 2

If a person's ego puts others off, should he/she just give it up. Is it necessary that we have to reciprocate to people who think we're "over-inteligent" by cutting ourselves down? Should a person fall prey to others' nagging when they nag for reasons unknown? (Very generalised, doesn't involve me)

2007-03-22 03:24:24 · 7 answers · asked by K-Paxian 2

2007-03-22 03:20:40 · 3 answers · asked by APRIL P 1

How could one censor the situation to face through life?

2007-03-22 03:18:09 · 4 answers · asked by Mystery 3

to build confidence.

because i hardly have any and really need more.

thanks x

2007-03-22 03:11:26 · 9 answers · asked by leannexfairy 3

Two people despise each other for years (man and a woman) could they ever actually start having respect then actually like become friends or are they doomed to pretty much hate each other forever. Strong willed woman and man. Women and mens views please.

2007-03-22 03:08:58 · 7 answers · asked by mario 1

becuause you cannot change other people faults but you can change your own and become a better person

2007-03-22 03:08:51 · 16 answers · asked by denny 2

posible or not?

2007-03-22 03:06:38 · 7 answers · asked by Jay Aka. ngerkday 4

2007-03-22 02:53:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-22 02:52:50 · 7 answers · asked by denny 2

saying a word and pretend they didn't see you. That happens to me almost all the time and they're fine one day and just when you think everythings cool they completely blank you the next day......... Don't they like me :-(? I feel hurt....I'm a nice person and just want to get on with everyone..... I try not to care but just feel crushed........perhaps I'm just too sensitive from inside? how do I toughen up?

2007-03-22 02:50:33 · 4 answers · asked by Dreams are exciting! 1

2007-03-22 02:49:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

abot things which are really petty, she even called the rspca cos my rabbit got in her garden, and they do evil sly things to me like cut my telephone wires in the middle of the night, at my church they said she has something wrong in her past happened to her, cos of her constant complaining watches me go in and out, what do you think , it really gets me down at times

2007-03-22 02:45:48 · 9 answers · asked by denny 2

and plenty of fish. and every girl i leave a friendly message for, askin if they wanna chat, none of them ever reply to me. im beggining to think its personal to me. my mugshot photos on the sites, so their able to see what i look like. feels like im being ostracised by people. i have low self esteem. low moods. high anxiety. i have recently been diagnosed with
borderline personality disorder. ive had these problems since 15. i have difficulty, with intamacy, maintaing relashionships or friendships. relating to people. i get dependant. needy. posessive and clingy.
i dont want to be felt sorry for or treated like a charity case, but im just wondering what i can do?
im waiting to be assesed for therapy. but my future seems hopeless, like it wont go anywhere. the only people in my life that understand, is my mum. i dont have any friends or a girlfriend. im tired of this loneliness & isolation & unwilling solitude. its like noone wants to no me. ive never worked because of my problems.

2007-03-22 02:44:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-22 02:42:58 · 3 answers · asked by diablo_gjones 2

2007-03-22 02:16:01 · 9 answers · asked by diabolatrix 2

examples in psychology reseach articles with correlational design and showing negative correlation between the 2 conerned variables

2007-03-22 02:12:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are 2 women who are very interested in me, the problem is that I am not, should i become a bad guy and pretend that i like them so I can get laid from time to time? or should I just wait for the good thing to happen (wait for the right woman)?

2007-03-22 02:12:04 · 5 answers · asked by lacoste 3

how to beat the everyday stress?

2007-03-22 02:05:20 · 9 answers · asked by vash 2

Usually, if you fear something, your behaviour changes and you actually cause your own fear to become a reality. (i.e. acting insecure in a relationship actually pushes the other person away) But, can you change it so that if you believe in something, your behaviour change can actually cause your wish to come to fruitation?

2007-03-22 02:03:59 · 10 answers · asked by ezydriver 2

2007-03-22 01:59:47 · 12 answers · asked by seblamb 1

2007-03-22 01:58:17 · 3 answers · asked by junkhead 1

2007-03-22 01:58:03 · 15 answers · asked by jay or 2