saying a word and pretend they didn't see you. That happens to me almost all the time and they're fine one day and just when you think everythings cool they completely blank you the next day......... Don't they like me :-(? I feel hurt....I'm a nice person and just want to get on with everyone..... I try not to care but just feel crushed........perhaps I'm just too sensitive from inside? how do I toughen up?
2007-03-22 02:50:33 · 4 answers · asked by Dreams are exciting! 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You're worrying too much about what others think. Fact is, those who are sensitive as you are end up being the better parents, adults, coworkers and humanitarians in life. Pat yourself on the back as you sound like you are the kind of person who lives with the "do unto others as you'd like done for yourself" . Kudos to you. You will be a healthy adult and will be the best friend to others in need. Now that is special and if your immature friends can't see that now...pity them, instead of feeling like it's something about you. Ok? Don't worry about toughing up....you're good just the way you are :)
2007-03-22 03:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by lykes2win 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this seem to happen all the time, the problem might lie in you, not them. The next time that happens, you should take the initiative to say hi instead. However many times ppl just walk past you coz they have lotsa thoughts in their minds or there are just too crowded that they just didnt spot you. I hope you are not the sort that talk very loudly in public, in which case ppl might be avoiding you to avoid embarrassments.
2007-03-22 10:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by dovett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't try to make friends with jerks, and go for friendships that're meaningful and worthwhile and will fulfill your emotional needs.
In other words, it's not you, it's them, don't feel crushed just get new friends! They're not worth it, lots of other people out there who will respect you and treat you well.
2007-03-22 10:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably hurts you because you care about them and their opinions...Perhaps they do not deserve your attention, so try not to feel blue...There are plenty of people in the world and real friends will stand by you, the others are just careless. Do not mind them...
2007-03-22 09:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋