Psychology - March 2007

Why do people here shout "Grow up" to people - who's points of view they disagree with?

Isn't this actually one of the most childish phrases on the planet (last heard -when I was a kid in the eigthies by spoilt fairly ugly ickle girlies in the classroom) - who have never - to this day actually "grown up" - or if they have, offer no way of life anyone here would wish to "Grow Up" too?

Particularly annoying - when it is followed or preceeded by no arguements, logic or reason - and is just used for the "debater" to just make some kind of irrellevant pointless stupid noise?

Is "grow up" the only arguement left for the Iraq war and the right?

Is this phrase actually supposed to convince people to take up a religion, fight and die for they're county - vote conservative or marry ugly chicks or work for 3dollars a hour?

(as a chap who spent years in the substance misuse industry - a fairly adult and professional area - I still have no idea what the hell it means).

2007-03-04 23:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-04 22:33:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-04 21:41:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always feel shy to speak freely before new peoples and can't able to express my thoughts .I just want to improve my personality in such away that even if i participate in a group discussion ishould keep my points nicely.

2007-03-04 21:29:41 · 22 answers · asked by rashi b 1

Has anyone have any idea's what i can munch on through my working day? I have a proper breakfast and lunch, i drink water but i'm always hungry...yes it probably is because i'm bored. I'm looking for something healthy obviously.

2007-03-04 21:10:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-04 20:49:59 · 6 answers · asked by Boyee 1

just like that..........one after the other........with every shattered piece my tears flow down my cheeks..........life sucks...........what do i do??????????????

2007-03-04 20:44:14 · 11 answers · asked by serena 3

2007-03-04 20:36:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

In your opinion or personal experience...

What makes others approachable? Be as specific as you can be.

2007-03-04 20:32:15 · 3 answers · asked by justicespeaks321 1

I've always liked to look forward toward this cause psycology is very fun to read and learn.

But i know there are alot of ways play with people's mind as softening them up and get in your mind and sutff like that.

So i will like if somebody can hook me up with a link that teaches you how to mess with the other dude's mind, not mess him up just get in his mind and stuff like that.

Heck i know alot of people are already born with these skills i have no doubt about it, but i will like to learn and read this stuff as i dont posses this skill yet :) .

2007-03-04 20:24:38 · 8 answers · asked by cj 1

2007-03-04 20:14:13 · 10 answers · asked by dirtydogpeewee2 1

2007-03-04 20:07:40 · 10 answers · asked by Ollie 2

I was reading somewhere that women will never understand the extent to which men hate them, especially when they hold there sexual power over them. is this true? when i think about how i may act around some boys i see how i may be using this over them ... but I am not intentionally trying to 'play games' with them im just being nice. now i see why kind acts to male friends (21-24 year olds) like giving presents, giving lifts, offering food- do not go down as well as they do with female friends. I feel really silly, and sorry- as it was not my intention to manipulate them...

i gave christmas gifts to all 4 of my x housemates (they all still live together), and signed the cards with 'love' and now it feels like they all hate me, do you think- they think i was trying to 'play' them all?

I was just getting into the christmas spirit~
maybe they will realise this when they are older and little more mature? gosh i hope so!

2007-03-04 19:55:31 · 8 answers · asked by chick1 2

What do you think

2007-03-04 19:47:32 · 12 answers · asked by gorglin 5

either from what i think a dream i once had or a sudden feeling that wow ive seen this before .. and i can never actually predict what is going to happen but the sense of a familiarity is always there.. once in a while theres chance to change what was supposed to happen if ive seen it in a dream and can remember it soon enough . but it happens more than just an occasion but on regularity. almost daily. what come of it? and why you suppose it get it so often.

2007-03-04 19:37:40 · 8 answers · asked by dustin s 1

If you've never stayed awake long enough to hallucinate don't answer.

2007-03-04 19:30:11 · 12 answers · asked by name game.com 2

2007-03-04 19:22:13 · 7 answers · asked by cheupe 1

I have a report that needs to be completed but am totally bored out of my mind and because of this boredom, i am feeling sleepy. I am also currently stuck in a computer lab where there's no audio in the pcs and even if there is audio am not allowed to use it to listen to music. I also do not have enough money to get something to drink/eat or go to a cyber cafe. What the hell should i do to get rid of this boredom???

2007-03-04 19:20:31 · 4 answers · asked by braich_gal 3

2007-03-04 19:20:14 · 8 answers · asked by waway_bato2005 2

do u think in these days that we so much instant messaging for interacting with ppl its ruining our conversation skills in person, it seems to me that i can talk for hours with somebody on msn - but in person i wouldnt have 2 things to say, just wondering what ur take on it is --- maybe im just on crack

2007-03-04 19:18:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am tired, bored, upset, disgusted, depressed, annoyed, abandoned, apathetic, exhausted, thinking about my dreams, suicidal, jealous, betrayed, everything upsets me,
I feel reclusive, rejected, uncherised, withdrawn, anti-social.

Too lazy to look up other definitions....

What should I do?

Give me some attention!

2007-03-04 19:03:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

is really good, I've changed alot. but indoing so i feel very alone and beat up. I find it very hard to be around people. I can't relate to many people and i see the world around me as very cold and hurtfull. I refuse to change who I am so i can better relate to people. but the feeling of being alone is very very painful.
I carry alot of weight from going through what i went through and being alone just makes it to much

2007-03-04 18:45:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

(i need 2 answers here)

i tend to think that showing emotion shows that you are somehow weak, and i tend to see myself as a fairly strong person which is ironic because i tend to be on the emotional side.
so my question(s) are
does showing emotion so weakness and am i just being a hypacrit, because i'm some times emotional?

2007-03-04 18:39:43 · 15 answers · asked by silentwriter16 2

2007-03-04 18:28:27 · 17 answers · asked by Barbie07_cute 2

Please help. Its just homework and I can't think of one.

2007-03-04 18:28:04 · 15 answers · asked by adette_cons 2

2007-03-04 18:19:56 · 4 answers · asked by Ava 3

Do they think differently from what I think of myself?

2007-03-04 18:14:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

why should premarital sex be allowed? cud u site any statistical data or words from xperts to support this(f there is any posible thing that u cn gve)???

2007-03-04 18:10:17 · 3 answers · asked by 'lyn 1

2007-03-04 18:07:29 · 11 answers · asked by yummybebe_16 1

I have a friend who does not accept apologies. I guy apologized to him 3 x yet he does not accept them. I apologized to him 2x and he also does not accept the apology.

He says we have done something that he cannot forgive and once that happens and he closes the door HE NEVER OPENS IT AGAIN ...INDIAN MAN ...CUSTOM GOES BACK 2 GENERATIONS.

He feels so hurt that no words can ever get him to overcome the hurt. Yet if he does something wrong he never admits it and tells you that you are guilty and makes you feel demoralized.

What gives here???

2007-03-04 18:03:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous