I always feel shy to speak freely before new peoples and can't able to express my thoughts .I just want to improve my personality in such away that even if i participate in a group discussion ishould keep my points nicely.
2007-03-04 21:29:41 · 22 answers · asked by rashi b 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
just be bold and smart.
They will call you,oh, how smarty is that guy.
2007-03-04 21:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by jes k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
new people and group discussions can sometimes be difficult for those who do not necessarily consider themselves shy as well. Do you refrain from speaking freely because the people are not welcoming you into a discussion or do you feel shy once you have the opportunity to speak and find yourself unable to express your thoughts? Are you trying to impress the group or do you feel strongly about the issue being discussed? When I am nervous about speaking clearly in a group, I try to keep my speech a bit more simple so that I communicate clearly. If it is a more relaxed situation, try to mentally focus on what other people are saying while participating in the interaction. Keep at it...it just takes practice!!!
2007-03-04 21:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by melissagldfsh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of us feel shy in certain situations and not in others, you re no different than most, here's the thing you are a unique person God makes each of us to be different and if you are what others call shy, ask yourself a question, am I really shy or are others opinions of me influencing my thoughts and perceptions of myself? if public speaking is important to you I would advise join a group such as toastmasters or a group that you feel comfortable in, such as a bee keeping class if that is your int rest, whatever your interests are try to find a group of people that share your passion or perhaps a better solution would be to volunteer your time to an organization that you care about. in other words try to reach out side yourself and interact with or help others you will find a surge in your confidence levels. I hope this helps.
2007-03-05 05:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by luminous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like you, now i am totally a different person, i will tell you how i changed, The root of this problem is our childhood blocks, try and find out about your childhood pattern in life. If you are in your teens you can change yourself very fast but if you are in middle age it takes some time to accept why we are like this. Either you might have had a sibling who use to be smarter than you in every manner or your one of the parents would have been a perfectionist by nature which they would have tried to impose on you or your friend circle must have been a type which makes you conscious of every move of yours. There are 2 ways to repair yourself. Firstly stand in front of the mirror and tell the dialogues whatever comes in your mind with an eye to eye contact with self or learn reikhi which is a 2 days course which will clear you blocks if you practise it for 21 days.
2007-03-05 01:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by rema e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 06:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by coratello 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one thing is for sure you are not dumb.If you can evaluate your self and know that you have a problem .The solution will be there within you .Just find out what's the obstacle which causes you be in a situation .Just carry out some self evaluation and keep talking to people .The more you explore it better . There's nothing wrong in talking , don't worry about keeping your points nicely .Worry about what you want to express .You will gain confidence in time . Just keep working on it .I know you will be fine .
2007-03-04 21:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Ganesh B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is impossible...Try to express ur thoughts through simple words at first....If your voice is loud then it would be a plus point to you....If you have a feable voice try to speak louder and make sure you dont make mistake while you speak....
Introduce yourself boldly to new people & create the best impression in your first meeting...you can get into it soon if you follow these because I too was shy at first but now I have improved a lot....All the best...
2007-03-05 14:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly dont follow what people say ....people say many things Well you need Confidence
confidence comes from "WILL POWER " in one word "determination" from ones own self The words I CAN DO IT really helps .What keeps confidence up is the support and encouragement of family and friends but you got to take the first step and say YES I CAN DO IT !!!
ALSO
Try interacting more with your family nad friends ,share your feelings with a good freind {trust me not only will you build up your confidence to talk to new people you will also feel better and relived from within }
Go ahead and try it cauz i know YOU CAN DO IT !!!
hope this helps God bless !!
2007-03-04 22:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by BaBy gAL ~ DJ doLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Have faith in yourself. Practice yourself in front of the mirror. You know what, best way to speak out is by listening to others and then know their taste better. Infact there are very few good listners. Reading and keeping yourself updated is very important too for participating in a group discussion.
2007-03-05 20:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by sudha k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be more brave in speaking, do more of it. You need to practise and the more you speak in public the more easy it will come to you. This is especially true if you are talking about a subject you know or are reading out loud to a crowd. Why not offer to read a prayer at the temple or something?
2007-03-05 08:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by JJ88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.First you need to share your thoughts and feelings with your parents, sisters and brothers. Also with your close friend.
2.Read variety of books, some literature, some magazines, and news papers.
3.Practice any hobby in a day like music, dance, sports.
4.Keep yourself fit by timely balanced food and exercise regularly.Avoid late night.Enjoy helping your family members in household works.
5.Prefer travelling at least once in a year whole family together.
6.In steps you will gain confidence and grow strong from within and I am sure you will feel nice of yourself.
2007-03-04 21:57:29 · answer #11 · answered by neela m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋