just like that..........one after the other........with every shattered piece my tears flow down my cheeks..........life sucks...........what do i do??????????????
2007-03-04 20:44:14 · 11 answers · asked by serena 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hold on, there are people that care about you, this to shall pass. Know that we care, and we want you to succeed.
2007-03-04 20:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Surrender yourself to the God you will read about in the Bible.
You are so precious to Him that He allowed Jesus to pay for the cost of sin in your life- so that you can be with God both now and forever.
Read the book of John in the New Testament to see how valuable you are.
God is your creator, He will give you what you need to heal your heart, always faithful.
You are a human being, not a human doing.
Believe me, I know how hard it can be, including being suicidal.
God has never let me down.
Even on the worst of days/nights, His Word never fails to restore my hope and minister to me.
Then I can pay it forward to those around me, and that right there is so much more purpose than any of my shattered dreams ever had the ability to impart.
He loves you.
Sayin' a prayer for your crushed spirit tonight.
2007-03-04 21:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by gettin'real 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya, sorry to hear that things arent going well for you, without knowing what it is thats been shattered I cant really be specific or of much help, all I can say is dust yourself off, pick yourself up & try again, don't let it get to you, you'll get there in the end, you'll find that nearly everyone has experience it & the only way is to muddle through & plod away until you get whatever it is that your aiming for. Hope that helps. TC xx
2007-03-04 21:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Vivi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUT of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.
2007-03-04 20:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by Runa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
change your perspective. it's hard, but it can be done through healthy living (eat right, sleep well, exercise regularly), having a good social support like close friends to talk to, and maybe even a visit to a counselor for some more tips.
but the power lies within yourself, not in anyone else.
2007-03-04 20:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh Honey...having had this happen to me several times over the past year my best advice is to let yourself cry. Give yourself permission to grieve. Then STOP...pick up the pieces and make new dreams, new goals and move on. Hugs and best of luck to you!!
2007-03-04 20:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you do nothing, it would depend on how they are shattered, like if you wanted to be an astronaut and you have down syndrome then you have a problem, but if its something like wanting to sing but you got kicked off of American idol then who cares. but either way, dreams are easy to forget, just come up with a new one.
2007-03-04 20:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by rocuronium77 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we all go through times like that in life ,but you must never give up trying your best.failure or disappointment is a chance for you to get up and try again.you are only defeated when you fail to get up again. These things happening in your life are creating an opportunity for you to grow mentally and spiritually and when you manage to get through all these challenges in your life ,it willdetermine what you are made of so never give up.
2007-03-04 21:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One simple and yet difficult answer: move on.
It's never fun when it happens, but if you dwell on what you've lost, you will lose your ability to be happy. So to move on really is the only option back to being happy.
Best of luck.
2007-03-04 20:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by Laurel W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Re-evaluate your dreams. Maybe you are not realistic enough.
Have patience and endurance. Manifestation of dreams is not an easy procedure, I can assure you for that.
Good luck.
2007-03-04 20:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋