Psychology - December 2006

We all looked the way we do for a reason! Love your skin.

We all have features of our ancestrial past. Love your genes.
(It's ok if you want your descendents to carry your features 300 years from now)

We should learn to uphold the truths of our past and cultures

Share them with others not condeming theirs while uplifting yours.

Teach to reach the height of mankind is my secular.

Just imagine how far we would be as a species if we we're more ANT like, possessing the same intellectual abilities and possibilities!

Just imagine the world that had never gone to war with its self.

Hue-mans... Here th call

"The Melanin Factor" is fast approching.

I have found love in all walks of life and hate in places I didn't expect if could exist. People are we that morally reduced that we are now so emotional about every thing that we are literally cultivating a mass emotional and mental break down.So many symptoms of this appear on every level of life in the US to date.

2006-12-05 05:05:48 · 7 answers · asked by Pr Messu Ankh Ta Aten Anpu 1

I am having a problem in my relationship that seems to center around the fact that my gf was raped about 5 years ago. Unfortunately her virginity was taken from this rape, she never told her family, and she didn't report the incident. She grew close enough to me to inform me of it and told me of the counseling she went through, trying to kill herself, and various other issues. To this day you probably could not tell that she went through all of that because she seems so strong and seems to have coped with it all and put it behind her...in every aspect except it becomes readily apparent in the bedroom.

When we first started dating we would have sex all the time, and she seemed to be more sexual than I was. As she got more comfortable with me and we moved in together sex declined.

2006-12-05 05:00:50 · 9 answers · asked by Doughman 1

2006-12-05 05:00:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-05 04:53:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-05 04:53:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can see in his eyes that he really likes me. He's even a little nervous around me sometimes. He told me he gets into "moods" that he cant help. Sometimes they last for days, but he wants nobody around, (he's fully functional, tho..goes to work, etc.) When we talk on the phone during these moods, his voice is so different than when he is "normal". I feel bad for him, but I don't know what I'm dealing with and he hasn't felt comfortable telling me yet. I can handle almost anything (bi-polar, etc), but cannot handle the rejection I feel when he goes through this. I know there is nobody else. Also, when he's out of the mood....he seems almost embarrassed and he doesn't want to talk about it and he's back to being the sweet, completely adorable guy I fell for. What is this? Does anybody have any insight???

2006-12-05 04:52:15 · 8 answers · asked by Scunnered! 3

The mind as it is:

This is a book about thinking and how you can find yourself in this book in fact we are all writers of books in this life.

This is a story about how you will realise how you are the subject of the story and see yourself for real. What I am about to tell you is amazing and don’t be afraid from it.

It’s amazingly simple and always remain true for all occasions. In very simple terms everything is only because you are thinking it now at this moment in time and is always true for all situations. The world is for sure absolutely for real but whatever it is it is still only because you are thinking it at this moment in time.



Let me prove this in a number of ways. For instance say you done a bad thing if you done a good thing who is the one that is thinking he did the good thing. Who was the one thinking it have a guess. The man in China is not thinking what your thinking is he or maybe he is it doesn’t matter its still only because what you are thinking now.



Many people don’t grasp this idea immediately but sometimes come in a sudden flash of light. People look at things from their point of view at the moment in time.

Life is incredibly made up of thoughts.

The true nature of truth it does not arrive at a point or final end. The same with thoughts. You can be your own master and controller of your thoughts it can become a powerful tool for fulfilment and happiness. It appears that everybody looks at things from their point of view at that moment in time.



The child being born is not thinking the same thing as the person dying. The person getting married is not thinking the same as the person working in a factory and yet they all seem to coexist together.



Ok to understand this better I could argue that all these people would exist anyway despite what they are thinking or even what they are not thinking.



Mind conditioning and the external world. Believe it or not you have been conditioned by the things around you and need to look at things without prejudiced.

The first six years of your life we were fed with information without asking questions

That influenced our behaviour and tendencies we have now

Start from a clean sheet every day

Words are like music that can be arranged in different ways



What do I mean by higher knowledge? Well higher knowledge recognises there is not higher knowledge.

The thinking that had you believing everything was ok until you found out some think went wrong. The infinite replacement of thoughts that keeps looking and renewing the I.

What you believe was right is no longer right.



Spurious belief in an education system that you believed was right and driven by possible fear and conditioning.



Were you born and believed everybody was right and honest. Did you believe everyone with a title was honourable only to find out otherwise. Was it really only because you are thinking it that moment in time.

The idea you had free will until you became the victim of another person’s free will. You realised you no longer had free will any more. The random uncertainty of events that led you to the realisation that life’s circumstances were not being made by you. Our judgement is normally then confused.



Everybody looks at things from their point of view at the moment in time.



Life is the way it is by virtue of the fact it is the way it is:



If it was any other way it would not be the way it is, therefore you would not EXIST to ask the question.



Where is history now?



How much of history can you remember?

The truth is that everything at this moment in time is only because you are thinking it now.

Of course the world is real but it is still only because you are thinking it. Get it!

How ever you try or want to interpret it the process is the same.

For instance you can say I am only thinking of one aspect of the whole thing but it is still you thinking it.

So believe me your thoughts are totally unique to you at any one time.

Isn’t it you get carried away in your believing everybody else is thinking what your thinking than suddenly you have to come to your senses, and realise its only you.

There maybe a common consensus but its still you thinking it.

Thinking for those already not in pain.

Knowledge is power ,but right knowledge is even more powerful.But what is right knowledge? We shall go into that in more detail latter.

Life is the way it is by virtue of the fact it is the way it is.

If it was any other way it would not be the way it is.Therefore you would not exist to ask the question.

Where has history gone and where is time surely its in the mind,how much of history can you remember.

A million people doing a million different things at the same time in a million different situations.

In the history of time were all those people only thinking at that moment in time.

Mind conditioning and thought patterns.The external world that you did not choose but is nether the less there.

You come from a point or place ,and you cannot change the place or point you cane from.

You can rearrange the things on the outside,but effectively you cannot change the thing you are.you cannot change core essence.

The self is the thing that steps back and keeps looking at itself again and again.

2006-12-05 04:51:40 · 1 answers · asked by ric m 1

Sometimes when I read a book, I find myself either mouthing out words that are in th book, having weird facial expressions. Like if it said "Then she grinned at him" I will start to smile slightly. How come we do this?

2006-12-05 04:39:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

will you go to the pas or the future and why?

2006-12-05 04:39:39 · 3 answers · asked by delacruz2k5 1

2006-12-05 04:30:41 · 2 answers · asked by darkglow24 1

I might need a bit of cheer...so tell me your life dream..if you please....Imagine yourself in that dream what is happening... How are you changed?...........!!

2006-12-05 04:28:24 · 2 answers · asked by Tabor 4

If someone has been changed in the ways of Reverse Psychology (and they know it-both good and bad change) who wins if the person who was the "victim" of this succeeds?

And what if the one thing that prevents that person from succeeding is knowing that the other people win if I become a better person?

Who wins? It's not a win win situation...

2006-12-05 04:27:34 · 2 answers · asked by xxxcariooo 3

The APA states, "Denying Same-Sex Couples Legal Access to Civil Marriage is Discriminatory and Can Adversely Affect the Psychological, Physical, Social and Economic Well-Being of Gay and Lesbian Individuals." Do you agree or disagree? Please tell me why you feel that way?

2006-12-05 04:27:20 · 10 answers · asked by mirand1823 3

Some scientists have been starting to make computer programed virtual human beings. these will be able to,if cut,bleed and reproduce new cells and shed old ones. they will be almost exact copies of humans and could be useful instead of vivisection(which i believe is wrong!) to test new drugs on. their bodies should work like ours BUT this means the brain will have to work like ours and sinse it is computer programed it could out smart the person who is controlling it and over power them! so is a virtual human a good idea or not?

2006-12-05 04:07:19 · 6 answers · asked by georgia a 1

Ok, When i meet people such as friends or people for the first time, i always have to make people laugh. I dunno why, is it im seeking attention or because it makes me feel good putting a smile on people faces?

2006-12-05 03:50:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-05 03:40:43 · 18 answers · asked by tulip 4

2006-12-05 03:40:31 · 8 answers · asked by David A 1

This is for art research, could you answer these questions?
This is for art research, could you answer these questions, or remarks, stories and point of view relating from these questions.
Those of you who answered my last set of question thank you. You have helped me progress in my work.
But from these questions and answers provided by you, other people i've interviewed and research in books, i've come across quote’s and comments that has led me do question more and I would like other people’s answer’s and reactions to make sure my answers are not one sided.
Thank to all who answer but please no joke answers unless relevant.

1.“it is always the woman fault” your opinion to this quote ?
2.“ Men think as if they have two brains, the upper and the lower, he always blames the lower for his actions,” your opinion or reaction to this quote?
3.Do we control society or does society control us?
4.“We need more people in science, we have to encourage more children to take up this field” but is this a form of manipulation of children's growth of idea’s and choices?
5.“Money makes the world go round,” your comments or reactions?
6.“love is a form of manipulation”, is this quote true? Why?
7.“There is no such thing as romantic love, it is an allusion we play on ourselves a trick of the body,” your reactions?
8.“(blank) is a nasty race, they are always putting themselves down and blaming the establishment because they have no self confidence,” does this in your opinion describes the average person in society?

2006-12-05 03:31:29 · 7 answers · asked by dislexic1yen 3

Nowadays it seems like we all must act as robots.Everywhere they require you to be able to work under pressure,deal with stress and so on.Just like we were robots.

2006-12-05 03:29:58 · 5 answers · asked by Brenno 6

a pedofile or a teenage rapist?

2006-12-05 03:26:56 · 11 answers · asked by john d 1

2006-12-05 03:13:30 · 16 answers · asked by kavitha s 2

I keep bouncing back and forth but never really going all the way with anything. I get all excited with a new idea then I begin to think that I wont be able to do it and I get conviently bored with the topic. I really want to know what my dreams are. I dont really remember anymore and I dont know how to figure it out. I think I have a problem confronting my insecurites or anything for that matter. I want to get past this I want to be confidant. What do ya all suggest?

2006-12-05 03:01:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-05 02:56:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What or who makes you wake up each day and want to be a better person? What drives you to be better than you were the day before?

2006-12-05 02:53:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I suspected a guy was playing mind games with me after exchange of messenger for 2 weeks. I sent him an email saying that's how I felt and then he got online to give me a hardtime. I apologized and he promised to send me some info, I waited and got nothing, so I re sent again saying that I thought he was insincere. Well I never got anything afterwards. Can any guy tell me if this is a classic case? Or was I wrong to judge too fast?

2006-12-05 02:52:49 · 7 answers · asked by Creativedesign 2

What is the relationship between wellness and self -actualization, I need more than a sentence, maybe even a website to help because I have to answer this question in 200 words.

2006-12-05 02:44:19 · 1 answers · asked by morpqueen 1

getting on the internet. i always sign on instead of doing the things that i really need to do. and please no answers like
" get help",
"see a counseler",
"who cares",
"whatever", or
"just don't do it".

thanks

2006-12-05 02:43:19 · 12 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3

its about lake ontario (i love lake ontario) and have been having this dream for like 10 years!
im driving a car down the parkway (lake is on both sides of me) and suddenly the road gets narrower and narrower and finally i drive right into the lake....i never stop!

2006-12-05 02:34:27 · 7 answers · asked by twatwaffle 3

Now, I know it all depends on ones definition of good and bad but for the sake of this question, lets use the sterotypical good and bad. I think most people are bad at heart. Humans especially when they are younger are so cruel towards one another for no reason. Most humans are selfish and only care about themselves. They seek revenge and feel hate. Humans are only kind to thier friends and family but to most people are a**holes.

2006-12-05 02:34:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Think outward, rather than inward

Be thoughtful about others, not yourself

What do you guys feel about this one?

2006-12-05 02:33:38 · 4 answers · asked by Mike 1