There is always one in the crowd that says:
"I've been there, done that" (Blah Blah Blah)
This person also seems to have a compulsive disorder in telling lies. No matter what the topic/issue, this person has done it all before...(& better).
The sad thing is, everyone that he knows, knows he lies & thinks he is a bit of a "....", but they do nothing (just laugh behind his back).
I have approached him before regarding this - but he ends up believing his own lies (such as "when I was at... or When I use to do this..."). All are a figment of his imagination. Everybody knows he was not there or doing that.
I finally ended up just being polite & humouring him, allowing him to go on & speak his "...", but this is now gradually causing alot of frustration, especially when different circles of friends & colleagues are brought together.
I realise this person might feel he needs to 'fit' in, but he would if he would just be himself.
Any thoughts?
2006-10-12
14:34:43
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