Psychology - October 2006

Hm let's see,
i'm 19
my parents are divorced, family is in debt
i work a crappy job at McDs..i guess it's not too bad
i attend college, although i have NO friends there, and i have an undecided major (can someone please give me some recommendations)
i barely afforded this semester, no idea how I will next semester
i talk to this girl at college a lot (well, sometimes) and I reallly like her, but she has a b/f....doubt she would go for me anyhow, she's beautiful
i live at home still....missed out on the college experience
broke up with my year and half g/f, we still talk but it's tough, she went to another guy, he kicked her to the curb, now she wants me back..but i wanna explore
i'm not happy with how i look, girls never notice me while my brother has like, no problem. weird.
i have pale skin and i need to go tanning, but hard to find time
hard to find time to do ANYTHING and even if i did have time, i have like 0 friends to do stuff with
i could write more, but ran out of characters.

2006-10-18 16:09:28 · 37 answers · asked by Greg S 3

My dad has a Master's degree and is very bright. He is a devout Christian. He actually had the nerve to ask me the other day why, if I love him as much as I claim to, and have so much respect for him, why I don't want to be JUST LIKE HIM?! I told him I am not his clone and he told me not to state the obvious. I told him that I pick and choose the good parts and ignore the other parts and he seems to have a problem with that...lol! I am my own person and have no desire to be just like him. He has many faults in my personal opinion. (He tells people they're going to Hell for example and that they're not really Christians for another example, he fought for and got custody of my nephew in a nasty custody dispute and I don't think he fought fair for another example) My point is I think he is being unreasonable and arrogant to think I should want to be JUST LIKE HIM if I claim to love and respect him so much. BTW: I'm 33 years old...LOL!!

2006-10-18 16:04:28 · 10 answers · asked by icu812 3

I met a girl online over a year ago & we quickly became good 'net friends,chatting for hours every day,then I learn(on 6-6-06 of all days) that she had been in a wreck & killed. Since then Ive had several vivid dreams about her. The 1st was a few days after I learned of her death; I dreamt I was at her funeral& just kept thinking how pretty she was, her face was sparkling as if it had glitter on it; then I'm suddenly in the morgue & shes now bald,I ask why & a man told me that her hair was ripped out in the accident - a few days later her mom calls me,simply because she found my # in her cell, we begin talking & she describes the accident to me without me even asking & Id said nothing about my dream! Part of which was that SHE had gone in the morgue&seen her with gravel pitted in her face/?the sparkles?/& part of her hair on 1 side HAD been ripped out in the accident! Could it be shes still communicating, or am I reading too much into it? Its frighting, Ive not had this happen before

2006-10-18 16:00:57 · 6 answers · asked by Reb 1

2006-10-18 15:53:31 · 4 answers · asked by Mattman 6

out of the box question.....


stripper...
pimp...
prostitute...

2006-10-18 15:31:02 · 6 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3

2006-10-18 15:10:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

And -- how "sure" do you have to be about a decision before you go through with it? Is there such thing as 100% sure??

2006-10-18 14:47:25 · 9 answers · asked by melon_rose 2

2006-10-18 14:28:39 · 5 answers · asked by sk8rgivmeinfo 1

...I told you I am a liar?

2006-10-18 14:17:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't say I am because I am not perfect. But I want everything to be perfect and I feel really upset or depressed if it isn't. I think this is causing me to have low self esteem.

2006-10-18 14:14:43 · 16 answers · asked by blue skies 2

I used to love drawing but I haven't done it inmonths. I have this overwhelming fear that my skills have regressed and I'll have to go through months or years of work to get back to how it was before. I used to draw every day and I did it for the sheer pleasure of drawing. Then people started to notice my artwork and I couldn't stand all the attention so I stopped drawing. I have this conflict where I feel like I should be drawing because it felt like that was my identity and now it feels like part of me is missing. But when the thought of drawing comes up, I get terrified and even if I don't show anyone the work, I can't even tolerate my own bad drawings. I just can't enjoy it anymore. But then every day that I don't draw, I feel guilty, like I should be drawing. When I sit down to draw, I feel extremely uncomfortable and all I can think about is trying not to make mistakes and I get impatient. How can I get back the patience I had and start enjoying it again? Is it even possible?

2006-10-18 13:47:39 · 8 answers · asked by conundrum 1

or.... is it hiding it's true feelings?

http://salticidae.org/salticid/diagnost/portia/quei-jph.htm

2006-10-18 13:42:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you look at another persons questions and answers to get some idea of what they are like?
I had to break this into parts because I ran out of characters.

2006-10-18 13:06:46 · 13 answers · asked by Sue Chef 6

Just tell what do you think about current life....

2006-10-18 13:00:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I place a question in a specific catagory and give details, I get a very insightful answer. I also appreciate the time someone spent in writing a response.
However,
I can post the same question, slightly reworded, and get some entirely different responses, under polls and surveys for instance.
I am interested with the psychology of the internet and how people answer questions.
I also like to try and understand peoples' perception of questions and answers. I think it can be different depending on how you read things.
This is a vague question I know, any thoughts welcome.
I would even re-enter it under several catagories just to see the variety of answers I can get.

2006-10-18 12:49:40 · 8 answers · asked by Sue Chef 6

if a relationship doesnt work out no matter how much each of you try; with no good results in the end...l.how many believe that the universe is just not allowing this balance between the two because their destiny is to not be together?

2006-10-18 12:46:42 · 14 answers · asked by beachgirl90 7

Don't post funnies.......i want factual information

2006-10-18 12:41:13 · 7 answers · asked by barrettins 3

2006-10-18 12:37:49 · 24 answers · asked by Simon K 3

I have flown in a plane before, but I am really scared that the plane might crash, or something in the plane is wrong so the plane goes crashing down thousands of feet. I NEED SERIOUS HELP!

2006-10-18 12:35:21 · 10 answers · asked by taytoes2008 1

When you're buying something for YOU that you want.

Not paying bills or loans etc...

2006-10-18 12:31:34 · 17 answers · asked by Duke P 2

(contd.)....heroin and really like the heroin of the latest watched movie. what is the problem with me ? i am not able to understand.

2006-10-18 12:31:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

or is there something in the brain that stops that kind of (sexual) attraction from happening?
just curious.

2006-10-18 12:30:01 · 19 answers · asked by AngeSurTerre ♥ 3

is it this question ?

2006-10-18 11:56:49 · 26 answers · asked by vinnie C 3

I mean Y?

2006-10-18 11:46:58 · 9 answers · asked by dragodron45 1

What ya think?

2006-10-18 11:41:50 · 16 answers · asked by zd_sr1 2

it just seems like i'm always wanting sex and i'm always thinking about it or i try to just think about something else if i dont want to think about it, what i'm trying to say is that i think i need a sex therapist because it seems like i need to have sex just to be satisfied but unfortunatley i can't b/c i'm single and i dont want to go out and have sex with someone that i dont know, so i really can't control that i have the urge to have sex every time i have an erection, even when i try to think about something elese but i really dont know what to do, do i need a sex therapist or what to solve this problem that i have, b/c its been like this for like 8-10 years now?

2006-10-18 11:20:27 · 5 answers · asked by . 6

i dont get why people especially teens my age like to go out and do drugs at a party? i dont get whats so great about getting "baked" and making a fool out of ur self. arent they worried about their health? 1 in 3 high school kids have said that they've experimented with drugs atleast once, i just dont get it. what do u get by making a fool out of urself? drinking also makes u look like an idiot, but it wont kill u, unless ur an alcoholic. drugs can though, but still kids do them, even in my school, which is set in a pretty safe northern virginia town. I think its funny to see a stoned person, but its also a bad practice.

2006-10-18 11:08:09 · 17 answers · asked by carolinafootball101 2

After seeing Andy's link, I wondered what your postasecret would be?

http://postsecret.blogspot.com/

Mine would be...

I promised that I wouldnt tell my father about my mothers affair. But I did. So it was my fault he left.

2006-10-18 11:04:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-18 11:04:16 · 18 answers · asked by appalachianlimbo 5

i look like i have just run a marathon.

2006-10-18 10:44:45 · 22 answers · asked by ? 5