When I was in my late teens, I met and started dating a girl who was diabetic. Back then (in the 70s) there were no laser treatments, and she started going blind. First in one eye and then both eyes. We spent a lot of time together, and it got to the point that I had to hold her hand everywhere we went and warn her ahead of time of any hazards such as steps, doors, etc.
It took me quite a while to get used to this, and sometimes I would forget she was blind and forget to tell her about some object in her way. The funny thing is, that once I programmed my mind to be always aware of her blindness, I found myself still in that mindset when I was with people who had no vision problem. I would be walking with a friend and tell him, "ok, you have a curb about 3 feet ahead of you" and even sometimes grab his arm. He would look at me like I was crazy and say something like, "yeah, I know...I see it."
I had gone from being hyposensitive to blindness to being hypersensitive to it.
2006-08-17
10:51:02
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