One of the "leaders" of our single adult group (ages 18-30) at church is a holier-than-thou type. He makes comments at the wrong moment, trying to be funny or makes the rest of us feel like sinners by saying we shouldn't do this or that. He doesn't really fit in or get along with the rest of us and I'm not sure how to get him to stop being a total jerk to everyone. I am the other leader of the group and I sent him an email of concerns and issues we needed to cover. I was very diplomatic and praising of his talents and he picked up on the fact that the group talks to me, not him because he's abrasive and rude. So, he got upset and ignored the rest of the concerns. Now, he's heard that some of us went out to dinner and karaoke one night and he's mad. What do I do?!
2007-05-14
07:32:07
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