2007-05-14 07:50:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Not really. But, my boyfriend did something pretty bad, that I broke up with him momentarily. I didn't talk to him for five days, and finally texted him when I was drunk.. Although what he did was bad, I had no room to be mad because I did something that was probably even worse.
2007-05-14 07:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by January 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm sorry to hearken to approximately your difficulty, it fairly is notably twisted up. I do believe which you will forgive your guy for his mistake. we are all human, and in ingredient to actuality all of us F**ok up super time quicker or later or yet another. in case you like him you will additionally verify that he keeps to be a ingredient fo the childs existence. i does not enable him off the hook too elementary nevertheless. i'd shop an in depth eye on him, just to verify he does stay conscious with somebody else returned down the line. continuously believe your gut instinct on issues, do not overlook approximately issues. in view that he did cheat do not forget that it fairly is a danger he would do it returned, exceedingly in view which you knew not something approximately it. If the baby wasn't born you nonetheless does not understand.
2016-11-03 21:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone has done something SO bad that it was difficult to forgive them. It took time, but I did. I don't think I would swear not to forgive anyone because I have done some damage in my past and my family and friends forgave me.
2007-05-14 08:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Vicki C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your definition of forgiveness?
I can forgive anyone if they show true remorse, regret, and intentions not to do offenses against me again. It's not always easy to see if they have a contrite heart, but as long as the forgiveness doesn't take away my dignity, well, then I give it to them with my whole heart and hopes for their improvements for themselves and society.
Otherwise, I'm keeping poison in me. I don't like being poisoned.
2007-05-14 08:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin slept with my boyfriend. And I promised to never forgive her. I'm over it now, but she's sleeping with another cousin's husband.
2007-05-14 07:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worked near a woman who hummed all day at her desk and it drove me so crazy that I had to move workstations. While that may not sound like a big deal, it got to a point that I hated my job and everyone around me. This went on for close to a year, too. If you complained, she'd play the race card. I will never, ever speak to her again.
2007-05-14 07:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Dave R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I eventually caved. It's not worth going to hell over (Matthew 6).
2007-05-14 08:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by fuzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my father was an alcoholic, abusive, controlling and made my childhood miserable for 18 years. Eventually I forgave him, but only after I had made a comfortable life for myself which did not include him.
2007-05-14 08:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mother Amethyst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been really pissed off at my younger brother before, but always felt different about things in time.
2007-05-14 07:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...its not worth it holding on to the anger and never forgiving them....It only harms you if you keep the anger inside...so it's best if you forgive and get on with your life.
2007-05-14 07:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Rican87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋