I am really shy. but i also have always been squeamish when it comes to hugs, kisses , etc. My family and relatives know that i am like this. my mom even says i'm cold when i flinch when she rubs my shoulders, pats my back, etc. My cousins always say, "i know you hate hugs' or "aren't you going to kiss me hello?" because they know i never do it. They used to take it personally but i think they've figured it out by now that it's just my personality. Even my best friend comments whenever she hugs me. I give her a very pathetic hug back. I also have difficulties with terms of endearment and cute talk. For example, once my friend said "i love you" and i didn't say anyting, and she said, "that's okay you don't have to love me" "or "you don't have to say it back" i'm not saying i DON'T love these people in my life,in fact i am appreciative of them, it's just that i never show it. it makes me uncomfortable and i would blush if i had to say it, and be embarrassed. What is wrong with me?
2007-03-08
11:15:55
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