What is it called pschologically? How do you fix it?
The other day, while job searching, an HR lady emailed me asking some info about my experience and acedemic scores. I went over the response for 5hours before sending it! I felt it had to be just right, as if I can control the messeage and the reader's responses and feelings if I tailor the words the right way; thereby increasing my chances of another favorable response from the HR lady. Today, I called a place about an application deadline and the secretary started making small talk-I wasn't prepared for it so quickly stated my question and got off the phone-she seemed offended by me not chit-chatting. Now, I'm obsessing all day thinking about how I should have talked more to make a good impression. She doesn't know my name or anything but it seems I could have "worked" the conversation better. Now my head hurts thinking about it so much! It's not that I worry, but I obsess over thinking how I could have done it better-strategy.
2007-01-25
07:35:12
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