I've dated on-line one guy, e told me he liked me so very much but then just stopped replying my letters and going on msn! I've written a lot of letters to him where I asked him to stay with me but he didn't reply! At first he did, he told he was busy and he that he thought of me but then he stopped... It has passed several monthes and this Christmas as it's such a day of love I decided to write him a Christmas comment on myspace. I've written it in his own language the one I've learnt while we didn't contact... And it was so red and with hearts :S and actually so sweet. If I had recieved it from the worst person in the world I would defenitely reply! But he didn't...
And he has checked his myspace page oly today and besides me there was one other girl who has siply wished him Christmas even after it's over and my comment looks really crazy (being with so many hearts but that was from my heart!) together with hers small... but he didn't reply on her comment too while he ALWAYS replied to her no matter what! I guess that's because he saw my message and that made him think... but anyway I know he won't reply as always and this makes me sad and even angry on myself that I've done this!!! I wanted to change all my names in all messages into bad words after that but decided that will make things worth? How do you think? Am I right? And what can we do when we have a bad mood? Think of this or try to forget? I wonder if we try to forget will it come out later or will it really be forgotten and better not to disturb it!!! And what else interesting... I felt when that guy has read that message!!! I just had a very strong thought of him that moment while I was in the bath and I KNEW that was because he's read that or maybe because he thought of me after reading... And when I came out it appeared to be true... Anyway tell me please everything you think of this! This will help me to come over this I guess... or to think of something else... I even wanted to send a Christmas postcard to this guy as he once gave me his address and I've bought it but didn't send... What do you think about my question and everything else here?
Thank you for your help and for reading!!!
Good luck,
Maria
2006-12-26
10:34:35
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