I've dated on-line one guy, e told me he liked me so very much but then just stopped replying my letters and going on msn! I've written a lot of letters to him where I asked him to stay with me but he didn't reply! At first he did, he told he was busy and he that he thought of me but then he stopped... It has passed several monthes and this Christmas as it's such a day of love I decided to write him a Christmas comment on myspace. I've written it in his own language the one I've learnt while we didn't contact... And it was so red and with hearts :S and actually so sweet. If I had recieved it from the worst person in the world I would defenitely reply! But he didn't...
And he has checked his myspace page oly today and besides me there was one other girl who has siply wished him Christmas even after it's over and my comment looks really crazy (being with so many hearts but that was from my heart!) together with hers small... but he didn't reply on her comment too while he ALWAYS replied to her no matter what! I guess that's because he saw my message and that made him think... but anyway I know he won't reply as always and this makes me sad and even angry on myself that I've done this!!! I wanted to change all my names in all messages into bad words after that but decided that will make things worth? How do you think? Am I right? And what can we do when we have a bad mood? Think of this or try to forget? I wonder if we try to forget will it come out later or will it really be forgotten and better not to disturb it!!! And what else interesting... I felt when that guy has read that message!!! I just had a very strong thought of him that moment while I was in the bath and I KNEW that was because he's read that or maybe because he thought of me after reading... And when I came out it appeared to be true... Anyway tell me please everything you think of this! This will help me to come over this I guess... or to think of something else... I even wanted to send a Christmas postcard to this guy as he once gave me his address and I've bought it but didn't send... What do you think about my question and everything else here?
Thank you for your help and for reading!!!
Good luck,
Maria
2006-12-26 10:34:35 · 8 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Forget him. Sometimes people lose interest in a relationship and they don't know how to break it off so they just act like it never happened. I know it sux, but that's just the way it goes sometimes.
2006-12-26 10:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Joni DaNerd 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry Maria in... let's say 30 years you will read a message like I read yours and realise that you have finally forgive yourself that very mistake...
So many years back, I wrote a poem to a guy and I was not even sure I was in love with him but like the fellow you are talking about, he did show interest but unlike now, then, I didn't realise it was maybe a kind of politeness to a foreign girl visiting his country!
Russel might make a point when telling you there is some pride hurt there...
I think he knows that all of us rarely like to feel like idiots!
About the fact of dependency, this is something you are going to better understand when you will get older...
Then, yes, it happens that people have those kind of strong empathy, a sort of telepathy...
However, even if he read your mail, you know too well, he didn't answer and only he knows why...
So, try to see people or read some of the questions of Yahoo, it is amazing how many people have heart 'sorrows...
Let's hope that the new year will bring you some friendships and who knows....
2006-12-27 00:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by klaartedubois 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh My God, Maria. You are so dependent on this guy about your feelings. It is independent girls that attract guys. You get to be attractive by making yourself attractive to yourself first. You can't make yourself attractive to please someone else or it won't work. You have to make yourself attractive to yourself. If you want to be special then you have to be special to yourself. Just too too many girls lose themselves trying to be something they are not. You probably will never be a fashion model but you can be just as attractive or even more so by finding your talents and getting better in them whatever they are. Show that you have goals and are going somewhere wherever that may be. Look at what you are good at for your goals.
Quit being a people pleaser.
Have the humility be be wrong and admit it and correct your mistakes.
Humility opens up a whole new fascinating world. You can try things out and be wrong and it is OK!
2006-12-26 10:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Russell W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get over this guy...you need to aim higher. Try to meet some one in the flesh....not on line. He probably has a wife or a girlfriend and got caught. If I were you I would move on!!! He hasn't responded to you....you should take that as a sign!!!
2006-12-26 10:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his mom took away his computer cause he was spending to much time online telling you how in love he was. MOVE ON...Go outside and get some fresh air. It'll do you good...Really it will... Thank you for the points and have a nice day...
2006-12-26 10:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the house.
2006-12-26 10:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER THAN SOMEONE WHO WONT EVEN ANSWER YOU BACK STOP EMAILING HIM SEE IF HE GETS A CLUE ABOUT HOW RUDE HE HAS BEEN TO YOU
2006-12-26 10:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by hallowsevenight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just forget him. He obviously has no care for you.
2006-12-26 10:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋