I'm 24. I have dreams of owning my own company, traveling the world, and living in a big house. These are all achievable dreams for me. What my vision does NOT include is the 2.5 kids, white picket fence, and a dog...ok, maybe the dog, A bulldog to be exact. Even as a little girl, I never stated that I wanted to be a mommy. My fiancee and I are both set in our ways and neither of us long for a child so WHY does everybody I meet tell me I will change my mind? Isn't it better for me to know that I would be an unfit mother? Isn't it better for me to be aware of my desire to remain childless? How many woman out there have children that they do not want? I do not want to be that woman. I dislike children with very few exceptions and I want a life with my fiancee where we can be free to do whatever we want, whenever we want. On top of that, I have a genetic disorder that I wouldn't give to my enemy, never mind pass to to a child.
So damn it, why does everybody say I'll change my mind?
2006-12-13
00:55:06
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mistress minx
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Psychology