What do you want for your nearest and dearest when you go to the other world?
2006-12-13 02:00:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I would want the people I really love to miss me, but get on with living their own lives. I got very ill a few years ago and nearly died so I wrote a letter to my son and had it put with my will so that he can have it when I die. I just wanted him to know that I was always proud of him, and if I had neglected to tell him enough times, then I wished I had more time to tell him every day how much I love him. I have made it a point since then (i've been in remission for 6 years) to enjoy life as much as possible, and to tell everyone that I care about, how important and special they are. I have always believed that the worst regret is for something left undone, not for things that I have done and wished I hadn't so I try to make sure that if I were to die tomorrow, nobody would be in any doubt about how much I care for them.
2006-12-13 04:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by deee999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want everyone to get together and share their stories of me and the good times we had. The crazy things we did and know that I cherished each and everyone of them more than they could ever know, but I also know that I chose to stay away because I was not strong enough to deal with my own issues-that it was never anything to do with any of them.
2006-12-13 10:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by foolograce72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question implies a belief in 'another world', something I do not believe in.
If I die before them, then I wish them good times while they are still on this earth.
Their is nothing more I can wish them, really.
2006-12-13 10:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Markie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want them, especially my daughter, to be safe, comfortable, happy and content. I'd also want them to lead a full life and not live in the past and worry about me. I worry about this a lot actually, I want my daughter to far outlive me.
2006-12-13 10:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want them to throw me the biggest funeral ever, and I want them all to wear black and cry for weeks and weeks. and talk constantly about how great I was and how the world will be a terrible place without me. anyone who fails to adhere will be getting haunted
2006-12-13 10:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For them to miss me but get on with their lives. To think of me once in a while with fond and happy memories but no tears..;
2006-12-13 10:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by huggz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I want them to be happy and safe even when I am gone.
2006-12-13 10:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by Angela Vicario 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not to see me for a long time.
2006-12-13 10:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by fatherf.lotski 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i can speak before i die
these are the words i would say
don't weep for me but courage take
and love each other for my sake
2006-12-13 10:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by joe123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want a party, complete with live band ;)
If they don't comply then I will haunt them.
2006-12-13 10:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋