My hubby and I have some really great friends- but, upon recently going to their home for a little get-together...I was asked to remove my shoes. It was cold, I had no socks on, I had powder on my feet, and I just felt it was demeaning. Especially when I told her I had nothing on my shoes, and held one up, and she said, "I know what my yard is like". Granted, she went and got me some socks- but, because of health problems, it's difficult to even get my shoes on... and these had laces. How can someone who is usually so kind and considerate ask me to do this? I can understand my kids... I rent, too, but, I don't make her do that. Talking to her won't help. I can't change her- she even makes her husband do it. Some may say to quit going over there, but, they are our friends. And, even if I would decline, my hubby would not. Is it rude, or not? To ask us to take our shoes off. If i had been wearing slip-on,'s, and had pretty feet- it wouldn't have bothered me as badly.
2006-12-04
05:57:52
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