Even if I was completely justified I always feel bad after defending myself. I have never been scared of people but I will usually let them get away with disrespect so I can avoid hurting their feelings. But I wasn't always like this. When I was younger I was, and I am not exaggerating here, the toughest kid in school. No one could beat me in a one on one fight. I was not a bully, as a matter of fact I hung out with the rejects to protect them from the predators. But something happened. I don't know if it was my mom continually trying to castrate me or what but I turned completely passive. The thing is, I don't know if I really feel bad for what I do or if I avoid conflict because I hate the voice in my head that keeps telling me I feel bad. Can anyone help me figure out what is going on?
2006-11-27
02:59:05
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